It’s been a long time /r/seddit. I ended up dating the girl in my last FR for little over a year and a half. Since then, I had grown an incredible amount on confidence (I had been hitting the gym religiously and gone from ~215 to my current 165), i had a job that I enjoyed, I have a volunteer position that I can turn easily into an internship, I knew I was attractive and I had a LOT of success with women, on and off tinder.

Yet as the past few months have gone by, I’ve taken a look at the number of women I’ve slept with and I’ve come to realize that 16 out of the 27 people (I don’t mean to brag, just trying to give an idea of numbers) I’ve been with I matched with originally on tinder. All 16 since my ex on an app. Not in person.

I don’t really know how else to express my concerns other than I’d like to be able to meet women in person and see if I can grow a relationship organically, rather than mutually swiping right. When I go out to bars I find it ridiculously hard to get the courage to walk up to someone and say hi, same with any type of scenery honestly.

Advice? Comments? Criticisms? Otherwise thanks for reading and enjoy the day