So I'm going to start college next week at the University of California - Davis. I was really beta in high school and was always the guy that was 2nd place (i.e. I didn't have a prom date because I asked 4 hours late, a girl I liked at the time who's going to the same college as me didn't like me and overall wasn't happy with myself). So I'm asking you guys general tips on how to change that stuff and just be alpha and get these girls to like me during college. I don't wanna be a shoulder to lean on but be the reason why that girl is leaning on someone else's shoulder.