Disclaimer : my English is not my main language but I'll do my best.

I see a lot of people stuck in the "dating game", facing rejections, complaining about the low value of people they're dating or approaching. But what is your league? And how can you upgrade your game?

There are plenty of small enhancements you cant implement in your life to become more valuable and date better people. Too much people are minimalistic and are not doing the basics to be more seductive and attract nice girls and good men.

Here is a list of things you can implement NOW :

  1. READ MORE! This one is not the easiest but I think it's the most important. You have to elevate your culture and your vocabulary. At first, read some books you like to read (fictions, romans, plays) and when reading will be a part of your everyday routine, pick more difficult books like psychology, history, philosophy... You have to enhance your culture and your vocabulary to increase your intellectual value and it's a turn-on for everybody.
  2. SHOWER EVERY DAY ! This one seems basic but it's not! Take care of your hygiene FFS!! You have to shower every day (morning or before going to bed) because who wants to date a fu**ing smelly guy? You have to wash your hairs too (3 times a week minimum, more if your hairs are fatty)
  3. Be careful with your clothes choice. If you want to elevate your game, you have to choose the right outfit. Throw away your regular jeans, your "metal band tour t-shirts" and your ugly fedora hat and open a fashion magazine. Buy some long sleeves shirts, slim jeans, a nice belt and nice shoes and it should be ok.
  4. You have to take care of your skin. We only have one skin and we have to take care of it! Inform yourself about the daycare and nightcare creams, how to clean your skin before you go to bed... You'll thank me in 10 years (it's a long term goal, but seriously, do it!)
  5. Have a nice haircut and think about your beard. Having a nice haircut is essential. You can ask your hairdresser if you don't know what kind of style is good for you (I always tell my hairdresser "I trust you, make me good looking"). And for your beard, if you have ass hairs on your face, just shave it please. That's disgusting. Shave it too if you have holes in your beard.
  6. If you are overweight, do some sport, eat well and stop sodas. You can google it but statistically, women prefer men with a healthy body. Do you wan't to play the "dating game" on hard mode? No!
  7. Quit alcool, smoking and drugs. You'll earn so much money and years to live.
  8. Don't try to imitate the "dating gurus". If you want to attract people, you need to be unique. And a lot of people are following dating gurus on youtube or on their private websites. Everybody start to do the same things, have the same tinder profile, the same pickup lines... If you are not physically like Marlon Brando, people will think you're just a creep following dating coachings on the web and no... you do not want that.

If you have something to add to this list, just write it in the comments. And if you liked it, I'll write another more advanced.

I'm a former seducer who broke too much hearts trying to reedem myself a conscience by helping other people.