There's a guy I find very physically attractive. His first language isn't english and he's told me that he struggles to fully express himself over text. TBH I think as he's become more comfortable around me that's less of an issue. I don't care about feelings or having a relationship with him in the slightest. To be blunt I want him as a notch on my bed post. We go to the same dance classes. My ideal 'date' with him would be a saturday night of shisha/drinking, dancing and then sex. We both work during the week so I feel that there would be less chance of him inviting me back to his on a weekday.
We have flirted on and off on text and a lot in person. In our classes his interest is mainly directed at me and not other women. I try and maintain physical contact and lots of teasing. I've initiated asking about hanging out, he gave a suggestion and I gave a counter suggestion but made the mistake of not specifying a date/time etc so got curved.
Last time I saw him f2f he wanted to meet up later that night but I couldn't. The next day I was near where he lives and asked if he wanted to go for shisha. I actually had no intention of meeting up with him at that point and he was already going to see a movie. Just wanted to see if I could redirect the conversation to hanging out i.e. setting a date. That suggestion was basically ignored.
There is a small chance I'll get a text tonight but in all likelihood our next interaction will be in person on Tuesday and/or Wednesday. I am inclined to hold back a bit on the flirting to have him talk to me more (this worked two weeks ago and he approached me to make conversation etc).
I've removed his number from my phone because I've been restraining myself from initiating conversation/ basically telling him straight that I want him to do me.
fPUA is dead and I'd like a male perspective on how to get my way. How do I get it in his head that I want a hook up and not chats about what film he's gonna see? He isn't into me beyond my pretty face because if he were he'd want to talk more etc. so I'm 100% sure there isn't an issue of him wanting a 'courtship'. He must know I'm into him because I have shown interest in hanging out. What else can I do to get him on my level?
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