Hi (20M) I'm when I'm going out lately (clubs mostly) I always find it really easy to meet and interact with other guys, but so difficult with girls, whenever I do this sort of thing with a girl in a club it feels a bit weird because it's like they auto-assume I'm there with an objective or something or they're less open to being initiated?

I don't know how to describe it but I guess I'm saying I find it much easier to have that 'I'm fun and don't have a goal other than having a good time' attitude when meeting other guys and girls seem so much harder to engage with in a club, I mean I guess I could just keep saying the clubs have shitty guy/girl ratios but that's bull 99% of the time.

Most action I get in clubs is from girls initiating with me, which doesn't really happen often enough or I wouldn't be posting this.

So yeah I'm not sure what to do really? I'm going to assume I'm not the only one who's like this.