After a three week long vacation im getting back to work tomorrow. It’s an understatement that i’ve not been out and about when it comes to dating. Especially the last 1,5/2 weeks.

I’ll break down the situation for you. I’m not sure if this happens around the world but if you go to your first year (university/bachelor) in The Netherlands your school is probably holding introduction weeks. These weeks are filled with events at school but also outside school, the events outside school are basically just drinking and partying. You don’t have to be a student to attend these parties because they’re pretty much just in public establishments.

Me and a friend went out together on the days we could. Both of us got laid pretty much every day we went. It is true that the girls that turn up to these parties are 99% between the age of 18-21.

Me and my friend are respectfully 25 and 26. None of the girls we hooked up with had any issue with it. On Sunday however another friend of mine came over and we talked a bit and he pointed my recent activities out that the friend i went out with told him about.

He said that the age gap between a 18 year old and me (26) is too big and I should only have sex with women around my age. I disagreed with him because they’re 18+, i’m not having sex with heavily under influence women, they always consent (I specifically ask them for this because of a new law that was implemented by the Dutch government) and they’re student that emphasized that they’re just looking for sex.

Let’s say me and my friend agreed to disagree and ended the discussion. But now I’m thinking, is it wrong to seduce and have sex with a 18-21 year old or is my friend overreacting. I’d like your honest opinion.