Teasing - any tips?

IAmDude · 2014-06-07T15:45:20+00:00

Ok, so the main goal is to give them the full range of emotions and to judge for yourself how secure and comfortable they are around you. If both of yall are pretty secure with yourselves, it turns into a really fun game where you're just blasting each other with escalating insults.

To start, you have to make sure they know you generally like them. Girls are always wondering what everyone thinks of them. You've gotta build them up before you start testing them.

So teasing itself is poking at different areas of their life or appearance to see how they react. They are either secure or insecure in that area of their life.

An example I like using at work (with cute girls I've already built rapport with) is coming up to them in a serious tone and saying "hey, I just got a customer complaint... Would you be able to put on more makeup next time? She said her children had nightmares of your face." Followed with a huge grin and laugh. THIS IS ONLY TO BE USED ON VERY CUTE GIRLS THAT KNOW THEY'RE CUTE. If used on an ugly girl, she'll cry. But a cute one is going smile, laugh, and call you a bitch or make fun of you back. If she throws an insult back at you, agree and amplify and laugh.

Ok, but what if you throw out a tease and she looks genuinely hurt by it? You found an insecurity that you need to help her with. A douche would take advantage of that insecurity, but you, as a good man, need to help her grow stronger in that area as best you can.

Usually, if it's a subjective insecurity I think is stupid (like her thinking her face is ugly when I think it's awesome), I'll just overwhelm her frame and throw her into mine. "Whoa, what the fuck, you cannot be serious. You're fucking cute as hell." And then I'll go off on what I genuinely like about her face. And then I'll quickly change the subject because she probably feels awkward as fuck, but happy.

And if it's a big insecurity, like body features or something, I'll just avoid that area of teasing altogether and plant seeds to help them grow stronger in that area. As bad as you want to help them, they won't listen to a thing you say until they're ready and ask for your opinion or your help.

So there we go! Teasing is a way of testing her and her testing you, finding out how secure yall are with your life decisions and bodies. When you find an area of weakness, help her out as best you can and hopefully she does the same. And if she has too many insecurities, it might be best to just walk away. A relationship walking on eggshells is an annoying fucking relationship.

Hope I've helped man! Practice with lady friends!

SharpieKing · 2014-06-07T14:42:48+00:00

When teasing, don't just tease her. Tease yourself, too. Don't just make her laugh at herself, but at you, too. Also, try to make her flaws, or whatever you tease her for seem positive, and create an inside joke of sorts with her. For example:

"Wow, you put ketchup on your pizza? You're sick! I put mustard on my pizza, like normal people. You're crazy, what other sick recipes do you have?"

She'll then answer the question in any way, doesn't matter

"Wow... You've got to show me what your weird food-fetishes taste like sometime."

That last line not only makes your tease positive, but it also sets plans for the future. If you're at some random party, chances are that you'll never meet her again, but by "making plans", she'll think that she'll still be attracted to you in the future, depending on the response, of course. That is a very good sign.

(Sorry for bad English, I'm not a native speaker)

herderofsheep · 2014-06-07T03:40:44+00:00

In my expirience, the trick is to try teasing, then read her reaction to plan your next move. If she is offended apologize and try to salvage it, but if she laughs and/or is jokingly offended, keep the teasing at that level. It takes some skill of reading facial expressions and understanding their emotions on the fly. Most importantly though, do NOT come off as annoying. That is worse than coming off as an ass.

A_Suffering_Panda · 2014-06-07T03:43:46+00:00

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Title	Teasing - any tips?
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Date	June 7, 2014 2:57 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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