Hi!!

I’ve been reading this sub on and off for about a year and I’ve applied so much of what I’ve learned here into my daily and social life.

I’ve also had my fair share of sexual encounters since then. I’m phenomenal at opening; whether it’s over text or in person. I’m so good at opening that my friends always want me to wingman for them. My only problem is closing when there’s some attraction and I need that extra bit to seal the deal. Most times I’ve been successful have been when the girl is already clearly attracted from my intro but most times, that’s not the case.

Usually I either start kino too early (which would put her off) or say something dumb (puts her off as well). I think it might be a mindset problem and I just need to go about it a bit differently. I get a bit nervous/start overthinking things at this point and it’s now a cycle where I go in strong, mess-up midway and leave empty-handed. I keep telling myself that it’s a problem I’ll solve with practice but it’s been too long and I think this is the right group to ask.