Text game: I get bored too quickly

openingceremony · 2015-02-09T23:19:22+00:00

Stop having conversations via text, use them only to set things up.

nlyles1 · 2015-02-10T05:25:34+00:00

Here's something I've found out. It's not you who's bad at texting. It's most women. Just like how most "basic" girls can't really conversate face-to-face without some sort of stimuli, most girls are just bad at texting men.

Example

You: Hey whatsup?

Her: Nothing much, you?

Instead of responding with anything. Like literally whatever she's doing, she gives you zero straws to grasp onto. This puts the entire pressure on the conversation back onto you. If youre not doing anything interesting at the moment, youre fucked. Here's an example where you get a straw

You: Hey! whatsup?

Her: Nothing much, just watching netflix and doing hw

BOOM! You just got too branches of conversation to get into. Netflix and what you both enjoy, school and classes you both might be taking.

This is a girl giving branches for conversation. If she's a good conversationalist, she might even attempt to create her own branches

You: Hey! Whatsup?

Her: NM you?

You: Oh nothing, just working this art out with my friend for my next tattoo

Basic her: Oh cool! I like tattoos

Good conversationalist her: Oh cool! I have a bunch of tats. What are you planning on getting?

Most women are crappy texters which forces us to overcompensate with witty banter, forced jokes, sometimes even memes. Know the girl your talking too. If she's a strong conversationalist then texting can be fun. If she isnt, then stick to just using texting for plans.

My advice. Think of questions as the root of conversations. Ask them, and from the initial question introduce your perspective and hers on a subject. Hopefully this leads to further branches, and in depth discussion on a subject. If the question tree your on is dying, plant another root question. And if she's asking you questions, then take full advantage.

Don't jump from question to question to question. This isn't 20 questions. Ask actual questions and give actual responses instead of hopping over to a new root question. The longer you can stay on a topic, the better.

ChicagoONE · 2015-02-10T06:52:45+00:00

Keep texting to a minimum. Use it to arrange dates and show her what you have to offer in person.

Title	Text game: I get bored too quickly
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Upvotes	5
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Date	February 9, 2015 9:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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