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Oh god. This is a cardinal rule of seduction. If you get yourself alone with a girl you have to attempt to sleep with her or at least attempt to kiss her. Hanging out with a girl one on one and not making a move is essentially putting you in the "gay zone" in her mind. Any girl willing to spend one on one time alone in her room is a girl who's at least kind of open to the idea of you two fucking. Girls don't put themselves in that kind of position without knowing what might happen. Now that's no…
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:47 PM
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Exactly. Just "hey man that's not cool. Apologise" then if he wants to escalate be ready to go because now he's trying to punk you out.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:17 AM
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Okay so there's a few guidelines I follow and maybe they can help you out when it comes to groups of girls dancing. Group Approaches If you're a solo guy, your best bet is with groups of 3. If you see 3 girls dancing, you can work one girl while her friends occupy each other and you can further isolate. Girls aren't going to leave their friend alone on the dancefloor, so don't try to isolate on a group of 2 girls. However if you have a good wingman and can have him dance with her friend while yo…
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:13 AM
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Oh my god has this sub taken a huge step backwards. Are we really upvoting this "Be Alpha" bullshit from 4 years ago? I thought we were passed this There's an ancient and wise saying: The wolf does not concern itself with the opinions of sheep Fuck the Haters Oh my fucking god. Listen OP I appreciate your sentiment, but this is the most asinine /r/getmotivated bullshit of all time. Saying "Fuck the Haters" is really saying "I can't handle criticism, so whenever I have to face it I just discredit…
/r/seduction13/01/16 02:46 PM
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God SL is so fucking godly. I'm too big for their jeans but their boots, hightops, and jackets are all fucking amazing
/r/seduction27/10/15 12:11 AM
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Brazilian, Israeli, and Turkish women are almost always down in my experience. It's just a cultural thing to be DTF I guess.
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:47 PM
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Who said the goal was to find a unicorn? Just because soulmates don't exist doesn't mean you still can't love someone. It doesn't mean you still can't find someone to share you life with. What you said sounds to me like, "Soulmates don't real, so I'll spend my entire life never forming actual relationships with people" For me the goal is to do this for a while, but eventually settle down with someone and have a family. This is just a way to maximize the fun I have in my youth, while also helping…
/r/seduction28/08/15 01:59 PM
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Doing well at a club is an aspect of game, but not the entire thing. Game in a general sense is just being able to talk to women and get them to find you attractive. Does it take game to meet a girl at a club and take her home? Definitely. But that's only one setting where you have the opportunity to meet women.
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:13 AM
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You sound like a group of terrible people.
/r/seduction28/08/15 01:43 AM
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Hey man, I've been there. In January me and my girlfriend of 2 and a half years broke up. It wasn't for anything crazy. It was just that 90% of our relationship had been long distance, and I realized that I had spent almost all of my adult life with her and was concerned about where it was leading. Was I really going to end up end up marrying this girl, without ever really getting the chance to date anyone else? Because that's where it seemed like it was headed, and I really didn't like the idea…
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:26 PM
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Snapchat is amazing for keeping things going while your apart. Not just for long distance but for local girls as well. Having a snapstory has a few benefits. 1, it allows you to see who's consistently following you. If a girl is watching all of your stories then she's interested. Unlike other social media that's just a random feed, you can't look at someone's snaps unless you purposefully click on them. 2. It allows you to show that you have a life outside of this girl. Women want to feel like t…
/r/seduction26/08/15 03:46 AM
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Who fucking knew right? Apparently actually having a conversation and being interested in what she says and responsive appropriately instead of ignoring her and using the time she's talking to think what you can do to get this girl to like you works well. Who coulda known?
/r/seduction20/02/15 06:52 AM
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Dude. Solid advice. You're right, so much unnecessary pressure on the situation to try and force the kiss. Not saying avoid it if it's there, but don't force it. Mid date kisses are always the best kisses and you totally just made that clear to me. Something I totally experienced but just hadn't realized. Like seriously, thanks!
/r/seduction20/02/15 06:18 AM
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Oh I completely agree. I'm just saying text up until the date. You set a date, and text up until that point. That way you solidify the date and don't worry about if she's gonna flake. I wouldn't try setting a date 2-3 weeks from now and trying to maintain with daily texting though you can. I'm talking the typical 3-6 day scenario we usually face between meeting and first date.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:31 PM
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Yeah honestly I could see it. D gets his fair share of girls from around town. They're not my type, but he's definitely got some solid game for the type of girls he approaches.
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:09 AM
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Exactly. Douchenozzle is clearly in the "fake it til you make it phase" he's trying to come off as confident and an alpha male, even sleeps with a decent amount of girls to try and give himself viable proof to himself that he is. But at the end of the day, he's still trying to be alpha. And if you're trying to be alpha, you've already lost the battle. I think people have this iconic idea of what an alpha male is in there heads and that's what most guys try to portray. Being alpha is nothing more…
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:06 AM
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I had a comment about the same thing earlier and you said it perfectly, its about being "Congruent" and putting out one solid persona and vibe that represents who you are. Maybe it's you when your most sociable and at your best, but it's still you. If you're 6'2 and charming with good looks than maybe you can pull off that whole Mysterious stranger vibe. If you're 5'6 and a bit awkward, being "Mysterious" comes off as quiet and disinterested and you're not going to end up with women fawning over…
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:55 AM
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You should go into this with the mindset that It's probably just not going to work. You can't cut ties with women and then turn them back on whenever you like. Women aren't as agreeable as men to be placed on the backburner. A girl doesn't text you in 5 months and sends you a "hey" you're probably going to respond. You don't text a girl after a month, and you're probably going to get no reply. The majority of women with self respect aren't going to see a guy who they don't think sees them as a p…
/r/seduction12/02/15 04:59 AM
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Here's something I've found out. It's not you who's bad at texting. It's most women. Just like how most "basic" girls can't really conversate face-to-face without some sort of stimuli, most girls are just bad at texting men. Example You: Hey whatsup? Her: Nothing much, you? Instead of responding with anything. Like literally whatever she's doing, she gives you zero straws to grasp onto. This puts the entire pressure on the conversation back onto you. If youre not doing anything interesting at th…
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:25 AM
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I feel like any of these How to be Whatever posts really need to come with the qualifier of "does this fit your personality?" "Be Mysterious" Sure Okay. If you're 6'2 with great looks and legitimately have an abundance of woman vying for you, then yeah, work it. If you're 5'6 and kind of awkward looking, throwing out that mysterious vibe is only gonna make you seem like a weirdo or a creep. "Tease her Playfully" again, does this fit your vibe? If you're someone who's not witty or doesnt do well …
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:38 AM
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But bro, are you sure theres not some weird trick with body language or eye contact to make them all be completely down to fuck?
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:24 AM
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Ugh so true. So much of my early days were spent making "just happened" scenario's. "You should come over, I'm cooking pancakes!"
/r/seduction03/02/15 06:57 AM
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I feel like you're really all about having the upper hand, so lets try and put it into a way that you'll understand. By pushing down your pride, and allowing this girl to work her own plan, you're still getting laid and if it doesn't work out then you can never talk to her again away without a second glance. She's working her plan, but your plan is allowing her to work her plan, which allows you to still be in control and have the "upper hand" in this scenario. Post sex you're the one in control…
/r/seduction03/02/15 06:46 AM
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Damn. Truth hurts.
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:25 AM
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So true. When you're young you're open and accepting to new ideas and trying things. As you get older and experience life you begin to get set in your ways. You find a way that's easiest for you to live and communicate with people. Maybe as you get older you become bitter because you've been hurt even after trying to change for someone and you don't see the point. When you're young it's easy to include someone in your life. When you're older you may not see the point in changing for someone. You…
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:58 AM
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Lol true. I tend to get long winded when I'm laying in bed and got nothing better to do haha.
/r/seduction02/01/15 05:52 PM
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Ugh, I couldn't have said that better myself. As if it's uncalled for to give a little context of what you're like in order to make your post more understandable. Quality post man, and I completely agree with everything you said. It's the same reason why guys have no problem talking to girls they aren't invested in, but talking to their crush becomes insanely stressful.
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:12 PM
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Yeah, I would definitely say it's also a good way to tell who's interested and who isn't based off of who's liking those moments.
/r/seduction04/12/14 05:04 AM
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Le master trickster is upon us.
/r/seduction04/12/14 04:59 AM
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Nail on the head right here. You should only send snapchats when doing cool shit. Make girls wish they were with you. Else its just texting or phonecalls.
/r/seduction09/10/14 07:31 PM
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Lifes too short to spend it trying to fuck a bunch of women who you don't care about. Id rather have sex with one quality woman who I share a connection with for the rest of my life than 100 girls I couldnt give 2 shits about after we wake up the next morning. Its good to get out when you're young, get some experience under your belt, and have some good fun. But its not good to wake up at 50 alone, wishing you had someone to share your life with. But you cant because you spent the past 30 years …
/r/seduction15/09/14 12:00 PM
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I couldnt have said it better myself. Theres a difference between a friend who isnt going anywhere in life, and someone holding you back. People who attempt to hold you back and snuff out your dreams should be cut off. But just because you're going to school to be a lawyer doesnt mean you cant be friends with someone who didnt finish school. You can learn something from everyone in different walks of life. Closing your circle off to only like minded people will stunt your growth and how you view…
/r/seduction15/09/14 08:18 AM
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It's a good invite to the bedroom. Hey you should come over and watch a movie! Now you have the ability to play the movie in the bedroom. Simple stuff like that that just makes it an easy transition to the bedroom
/r/seduction14/09/14 03:19 PM
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What adult keeps trophies in their rooms? Unless you're a professional athlete I dont really see the point. Am i suppossed to have my trophies from 1997 YMCA soccer? I dont think thats getting any ladies lol. Also thats what the trophy room is for. That being said, your room should speak for you and your personal taste. Some artwork you enjoy. Perhaps something you made. Otherwise you should just have upgraded basics. A nice TV, high thread count sheets, a great bed, matching furniture, sound sy…
/r/seduction14/09/14 10:54 AM
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Wow...I feel like you just broke up with me, but I'm the one who feels like the jerk. What a way with words. Keep it up blastanova.
/r/seduction14/09/14 10:44 AM
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Did you know the leading cause of death is life? You literally cant have one without the other. How are you going to have divorce rape without a marraige? Stop trying to spit off statistics that sound smart when they're inane bullshit.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:25 AM
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Im so happy for you man. I started a lot earlier than most but realized quickly that long term relationships with people you actually care about are far more rewarding than 1 night stands and FWBs. Both of which have their benefits though. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Allow yourself to open up. Allow yourself to love and be loved. It sounds like you've got a great girl on your hands. Even if she's not the one, the lessons you learn from building this type of relationship only help in future …
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:16 AM
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That was probably the best article I've read in a while. Thanks for the post.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:09 AM
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MOOMMMMM. MOOMMMMM WHERE'S MY MEATLOAF!
/r/seduction08/09/14 02:25 AM
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That's a pretty solid line to say mid staring contest.
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:49 AM
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I'd stick to texting is logistics. Small talk over text can really only become boring and monotonous. If you're doing it because you feel you have too, she'll since that. I wouldn't text her. Maybe send her a couple snapchats of interesting things you're doing, and text to verify logistics the day prior. That's about it.
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:39 AM
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Sweet dick bro!
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:32 AM
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I enjoy going to bars and clubs with my female friends because it automatically garuntees a dance partner. Your wing woman probably won't ditch you unless you've both found someone else. Having a woman with you, eases the tension for other girls to be around you. Women are better at small talk than men, they're better at opening conversations off of little things. Here's a situarion. Go buy drinks at one side of a bar while your wing woman chats up a girl your interested in at the other side. Gi…
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:07 AM
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Can you elaborate on what happened? You said you thought it was gonna be okay and then it wasnt.
/r/seduction05/09/14 09:58 PM
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It started off as a PUA type community, but this is definitely more the attitude here. That whole Old School PUA style where ou oversexualize everything, and attempt to manipulate women into sleeping with you doesn't really fly here. It's a lot more on self improvement which helps with in all social situations, and of course dealing romantically with women. And has a lot less of that psuedo social science about social value and what not. You found a good place.
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:46 AM
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No problem man. Its a common theme. People just think they can get lazy in relationships. How many times do you hear people say theyre ready to get married so they can stop "trying". When in reality you should always been trying. Should your relationship be comfortable? Or course. But not lazy. Im always big on self improvement and growth. I think you should always be trying to improve yourself. And I think women respond well to that. Do you need to be a billion dollar CEO? Of course not, but it…
/r/seduction03/09/14 02:51 AM
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Im sorry that happened man. But its good to talk it out. Seems like you've at least come to terms with it though. Acceptance is a big part. Were there any signs it was coming? Disntancing herself? Anything?
/r/seduction03/09/14 12:12 AM
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Hahaha no im not. Just a guy who enjoys watching and studying human interaction way too much. Not saying doing these things are going to make every relationship perfect but these are the big noticable things that you can do to keep attraction over years. When you look at couples who are happy over a long period of time theyre usually still attracted to each other. They have their own lives and hobbies which allows you to share and grow with each other. Of course on the emotional side of things, …
/r/seduction02/09/14 11:14 PM
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Its cool man, you're welcome. I watched my best friend go through it. He dated this girl for 2 years and she was his first real GF. He got complacent and lazy. Stopped taking care of himself, stopped caring what he wore in public, and stopped being a good boyfriend. He no longer did the things that made her feel special. So what happened? She found some new guy who made her feel desired and special again, and left him for this other guy. Unfortunately for my friend he had to find out the hard wa…
/r/seduction02/09/14 05:58 PM
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Hahahaha I have a very similar experience. In highschool I had this girl who I would talk to for hours every night on AIM or FB or whatever. She lived the next culdesac over. We never really flirted, but one night she says "hey you should come over" I said I would and was too chicken shit to go because I was super seld concious and I was scared of my mom finding out I was gone. Me and her never really talked again. Probably the biggest miss of my life. She said her family was gone and everything…
/r/seduction02/09/14 02:01 AM
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Samsies with the longterm GF. We just had our 2 year anniversary. But I enjoy keeping up with this kind of stuff and the theory of social dynamics. I feel like a lot of men get dumped because they forget how to attract women. They get complacent and lazy in comfortable relationships and then when they get broken up with they have no idea how to walk back out into the dating world. This stuff keeps me fresh and on my toes, and I can still work on talking to women and opening without cheating. Plu…
/r/seduction02/09/14 01:18 AM
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Every girl shit tests. Its not an immaturity thing. Its just a social tactic women use to guage people and figure out where they stand and how they are percieved in your eyes.
/r/seduction01/09/14 11:25 PM
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No man I totally get it. That old school PUA style (say the right thing at the right time ) puts way to much pressure on a situation. You shouldnt be thinking of what to say in a conversation. You should just be having a conversation. Can you stear the direction of conversations of course. But you cant force it else its awkward. I like what you have to say though. Mind sharing your techniques on kino and closing?
/r/seduction01/09/14 11:20 PM
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Nobody2000s got that solid advice.
/r/seduction01/09/14 11:11 PM
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Also 20,30 matches a day?! Thats plenty to chomp away with for a while. Thats enough dates for half a year. Stop being greedy. Work what you've got.
/r/seduction30/08/14 06:33 PM
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Just make new accounts everyweek and make sure to get the numbers of girls you wanna talk to again before you delete your tinder so you can have a way to contact them. Probably not the most effecient way. But probably the best way to keep consistently high numbers.
/r/seduction30/08/14 06:32 PM
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Well tinder is a lot less of a dating website than OKC. A lot of girls use tinder like a hotornot and just use it for fun when they're bored. If they get a match, awesome! If not whatever. 8/10+ don't need a dating site to get laid, they get enough attention on every social media site they're on and IRL. Using a dating site is unnecessary for them. Having a tinder can just be seen as something fun and casual as opposed to an actual dating site. Good way for hot girls to look for the D without ge…
/r/seduction30/08/14 02:51 PM
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Lesson learned from Tinder: Only swipe right on girls you actually find attractive, that way when you get a match notification you can actually get excited instead of seeing its another overweight 24 year old single mom.
/r/seduction29/08/14 03:53 AM
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Clearly you're not that ugly if she swiped right on your tinder. Your focusing on your looks/genetics because it's something you can't change about yourself. Seems like there's some personality stuff you need to work out. Or maybe your game just isnt that strong. Either way, focus on the things you can improve about yourself instead of sitting on the Internet calling yourself a genetic failure.
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:23 PM
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Oh man, you definitely hit some things that I haven't felt in a while reading this. What you need to realize is that you can't make an intimate relationship "happen" its one of those things that comes naturally. Some people naturally connect, others don't. You can't force a connection so take the stress of yourself of trying to find someone to be intimate with. When you find someone whos worth being intimate with to you it'll be a lot easier to let her in. That being said, when you do find a gir…
/r/seduction22/06/14 03:51 AM
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No she says. " hey I would love to continue the night and take you back to my place" first. You pause and read a response. If its a No, then you continue on to what I said, if its a yes then you obviously take her home. Her advice is pretty much the best way to take a rejection when asking to take a girl home.
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:05 PM
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Youd be surprised how much women respond to you actually caring about their feelings. Her comment isnt the best way to phrase it but the sentiment is what counts. Especially for a girl you know isnt going to go home with you that night. You meet a girl and hit things off and say "Hey come home with me" and she says "No, I need to stay with my friends" Youe options are A, be pushy and keep asking, which shows your a creep only after sex B. Walk away cuz you're just looking for a hook up C. Say " …
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:13 PM
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Seriously man its all about letting go and having fun. Do whatever comes naturally and dont feel embarrassed about what your doing. Alcohol helps. If youre dancing or grinding with a girl dont dance on her, dance with her. Move where she moves and get her to move where you move. Move together. Its always about showing you arent afraid to be yourself and being fun. Even dudes who dance like idiots can get girls. Why? Cuz even if you suck it shows that you have enough self confidence to try and th…
/r/seduction12/04/14 08:36 PM
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No problem man. I used to be the same way. Tried to hard to be that cool asshole and I was striking out constantly. Your #1 goal when you go out should be to have fun. Its so much easier to go out and actually have a good time than to actively go out seeking women. Not to mention if you dont pick up someone you dont feel like a failure. Your goal was to have a good time and you did! If youre going out to pick up girls they can feel that off you and you get that creeper vibe going. You reak of di…
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:14 PM
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I like that thing about different tastes. Everyone including me takes rejection wayy to personally. Maybe your just not her type.
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:51 PM
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Sleep with all the girls you wanted to in high school cuz they all got fat and or engaged by the end of college. Had prime pickings in high school, didnt know what I was missing.
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:50 PM
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I dont think what your asking here is how to I get a sense of humor. I think what your asking is how do I be more fun. Its a simple answer with a complex solution. You have to be having fun. To do this you've got to be able to let the serious image of yourself go. You have to be willing to embarrass yourself for the sake of having a good time. Instead of being that crass boring asshole at the bar, be that guy in the middle of the dance floor goin crazy. It doesnt matter if you can dance or not, …
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:34 PM
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Solid date activity that you dont have to be good at. You dont have to sit in silence like a movie, but its also not as purely talkative as dinner. You can controk the pace and flow of conversation. If youre having a good conversation you can just take your time between sets, or if theres a lot of awkward pauses you have a reason to break conversation and go bowl your turn. You do well you can show off, she sucks you can make fun of her without her being personally offended because no one gives …
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:40 PM
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How much do you weigh and how tight are your clothes? I used to weigh 140 and wear tight pants and got asked if I was gay all the time. Now im 180 and wear fitted pants, havent been called gay in years. If you seem more masculine you wont be accused of it. Im just gonna assume your under 150 lbs and dress rather well.
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:32 PM
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At first I read that as 5 seconds and thought "wow those are some long fucking pauses"
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:16 AM
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Its confusing because everyone woman is a person with different past experiences and expectations. If a girl flakes on me shes pretty much out unless it was a reasonable excuse. The way you make it easy is when you set up your game to go for the type of woman you want in your life.
/r/seduction27/10/13 07:07 AM
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Man I was you a year ago. I always hated confrontation. If I didnt like someone I would just never talk to them again or avoid them. Then I went through BMT for the airforce and I realized I couldnt just walk away from a person. Theres 50 of us in a room. If someone bitches you out and yoy just let it be you are now there bitch. 2 main things I took a way is You kill any challange someone comes at you with at the lowest level. Once that guy said hey is that your shit and you said no that should …
/r/seduction27/10/13 05:09 AM
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Man I really appreciate your positivity when it comes to your height. I was short all throughout my life until I hit a growth spirt and went from 5'3 to 5'8 my senior year in high school. I was always so down on myself about how short I was, glad to hear your make it work. Keep doing you man!
/r/seduction27/10/13 04:42 AM
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So happy to hear that for you man. Keep it up!
/r/seduction27/10/13 04:29 AM
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Truth right here. Not saying that sleeping with a few girls doesnt boost your confidence for a while, but im still the same person through and through since early on in college.
/r/seduction27/10/13 04:26 AM
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And thats exactly how its supposed to work. Using the tools on a lot of women at first in my opinion is just practice. Eventually you just narrow it down to the girls you really want in your life. Kudos to you man, congrats on the new girlfriend!
/r/seduction14/10/13 01:26 PM
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One of my friends once told me that whenever he gets questions like this as clothes are coming off he just says "girl, you're thinking to much" ive used it a couple of times and it completely difuses the situation.
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:32 PM
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You must be a big hit with the ladies. That duck move is genius
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:04 PM
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IMO things i desire in a woman are conversational skills, sense of humor, a healthy sexual appetite. Also i love a woman with her on opinions on things, we don't have to agree on 100% everything, I dont need a yes woman. I'd like some pushback so we explore thing further in the conversation. Which leads me to point 1, conversation skills. If We can't talk about things this isnt going to last long. I was dating this girl a few months ago and her response to everything was literally "hahaha yeah!"…
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:57 PM
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could you please elaborate on the kissing game?
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:12 AM
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Good post Aloss. Love the slow build, especially for girls you want to see as more than just a FB or fling.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:22 AM
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are you from maryland? possibly around Columbia?
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:53 PM
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Yeah, nothings better than hot, damp, moist panties. In all seriousness though you're completely right, its all about confidence and how you say it. If you think its lame, she'll think its lame too. If you make it seem fucking awesome, she'll be super pumped about it.
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:57 AM
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No problem, I'm not very active right now. I have an LDR with this really great girl who i know is probably reading this. She lives across the country so i've just stuck myself in observation mode at this point. However it doesn't mean I can't go out and be socially forward. Before that guy got there I was having a fun time talking to everyone. Honestly takes a lot of pressure off the night when you're not going out to close and you've got a great girl to call and tell about your night
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:53 AM
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In all seriousness you should definitely try the apocalypse opener. Walk up to a girl whos at a club or a bar with no one around her, its important that shes isolated that way friends don't sway her decision. Walk up to her and say You-Hi Her-Hi You-How are you? Her-Good You-What are you doing later? Her-Uhh I don't know You- Would you like to come home with me?. At this point say nothing, just keep a light smile and solid eye contact, say it very mater-of-fact like you just asked her if she wan…
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:53 AM
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You've built interest for me in this 3 dats game, I'd like to read it, thanks aloss.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:55 AM
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Dont forget the vest/graphic t-shirt combo, ohhh the fucking horror.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:47 AM
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Yeah you're right, definitely something I'm gonna use my next night out. I've always been someone to over analyze what people are thinking, or the different outcomes of how they would react to what I'm about to say before I've said it, allowing that to determine what I say and how I say it. This is a great tip for staying focused as well as just being more relaxed overall when it comes to conversation
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:36 AM
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TL:DR- Avoid putting too much on your profile to come off as desperate/having to field messages from people you dont want too. Do as little communicating on OKC/text as possible and save real conversations for face to face interaction
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:28 AM
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I like this, however you should totally be analyzing every driver around you at all points in time. If you're not mentally prepared for what the 9 possible cars around you are about to do then you're bound to have a few accidents
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:19 AM
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I think most of as redditors are pretty nerdy but you should keep your nerdiness inside and show it when you're ready to build intimacy with someone. Should you hide yourself? absolutely not, but its about putting your best self out there. Could i go up to girls and talk about how big a stand up comedy nerd i am and how i've heard pretty much every joke written after 1999? sure. But a high percentage of girls arent going to connect with what I'm saying. Or could i go out and talk about rock clim…
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:55 AM
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Full outfit description for a fellow mfa-er http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11ugv8/fr_fedora_guy/c6ptpax
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:28 PM
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Alright honestly I didn't share the whole outfit because it just sounds unbelievable but from top to bottom it was. Fedora, aviators, rob zombie shirt, ripped very baggy jeans, and converses with the riddlers questionmarks on them. And to top it off, he tied his white tapout hoodie around his waist. I'm just gonna let that sink in. I wish I was kidding.
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:19 PM
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Hell no. Dude Will ferrells got like 8 inches on him. And a ton more reach. Walberg would be done in the first round
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:13 PM
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Hey man to be fair, the song "Yeah" gets me pumped for a night on the town
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:10 PM
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More like PCP
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:08 PM
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He would have been top all time
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:06 PM
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Apparently he's a regular too. I talked to the owner and everyone who works there hates him. How bad of a person do you have to be to be mutually hated by the owners of a hookah establishment?
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:04 PM
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Hahahahaha I think he was trying to impress the ladies. But it was only 10 which isn't anywhere near impressive. And then he got really winded doing them too. Such an embarressment
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:02 PM
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I wish I had honestly. Ughh he was such a horrible person. Who wears a fedora and a rob zombie t shirt?
/r/seduction21/10/12 07:59 PM
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For the love of god and or science, whatever your beliefs. Do not go as the crow
/r/seduction09/10/12 03:48 AM
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Oh man that was excellent. Some of the best advice i've seen on here
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:28 PM
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Introduce yourself to everyone when you come in, make sure you're not that guy no one knows standing on the wall not talking to anyone. Make friends, have fun. Be the fun guy, dance. Fucking dance hard, take shots with people. Anyone has an idea to do something youre their number 1 supporter and first to volunteer to help them or do it with them. Everyone is just as shy and awkward as you think you are and go to a party looking for fun. Be the fun, people will gravitate to you like moths to ligh…
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:34 AM
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yeah definitely man, if you feel like you can do that then do it! just a kiss though, light make out tops. I just went with the home isolation because i have a good turnover rate from makeouts to F-closes but if you wanna get her alone in the hallway and kiss her go for it! love the idea
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:03 AM
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Practice word vomit. Whatever thought you have just say it outloud. I used to be very shy and rarely social in high school always wondering how people would react to what i said so to change myself i started word vomiting. Saying whatever came to mind, being overly talkative to the point where it was annoying. Now i have it dialed back to the perfect amount, but work on letting your thoughts just flow out of your face. Once you get used to that you'll realize how easy conversation is.
/r/seduction07/10/12 03:36 PM
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She does love a nice gangbang
/r/seduction07/10/12 03:30 PM
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Problem is the majority of guys here are beginners and its best to start off with the fundamentals of inner game and work on liking yourself first and letting your confidence show through you. Outer game is great advice for intermediate/advanced sedditors but if a beginner uses outer game tricks they'll become nothing more than a failed douchey PUA trying to peacock themselves with a fedora or an eye patch. I would definitely like to see more OG stuff on here to implement in my daily life though…
/r/seduction07/10/12 03:27 PM
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Hahaha no problem. Need anymore advice you can comment here or PM
/r/seduction06/10/12 11:25 PM
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hmmm, sounds like she was probably just genuinely tired. Dont think to much about it buddy. I'd ask her if she wanted to again next week and if she says no again or blows you off just stop pursuit for a while. Once you're shot down twice anything afterwards comes off as desperate. You become nothing more than her fall back when she feels bad about herself. In the meantime I'd get to know other girl in class. Even the 5's and 6's. Make all the girls in class like you, and little big horn her. She…
/r/seduction06/10/12 11:03 PM
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where and when did you ask her to study? was it right after class? is there a test coming up? and whered you ask to study? her place? your place? the library?
/r/seduction06/10/12 10:38 PM
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While your laughing together. Tell her she's cute and lean in and kiss her.
/r/seduction06/10/12 06:26 PM
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Mentally you may not feel comfortable with your day game yet. You should work on talking to girls in your class, just friendly banter. You have to realize that picking up is not just a night time thing, its around the clock. You can even have an afternoon delight F-close if you want. When that girl asked for your number, you should have given it to her, gotten hers and told her shes cute and that you guys should hang out sometime. Advance her advances. ABC man, always be closing. But work on it …
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:01 AM
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I got this a lot too when i was younger, and its because you probably come off as a really nice guy who would do anything for anyone. What i've realized from my experience is you have to show them you have a dark sexy side too as well as your typical nice guy self. Also work fast. Guys who come off as "hot" tend to have a longer shelf life whereas cute guys tend to get friendzoned if they dont make a move quick enough. A hot guy will always be fuckable, whereas a cute guy can be your best friend…
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:47 AM
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thousands of dollars worth all the alcohol, housing, parties and girls who are the perfect mixture of hot and easy, not to mention really good friends in the future and possible business connections? yeah, totes worth it. Don't shit on frats man, add up all the amount of money you'll spend on on alcohol, money for parties, and time and effort you'll spend trying to round up enough girls to hang out with you will pretty much even out with the amount you'll spend with initiation fees and dues to y…
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:34 AM
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sure man! the biggest tip is to not make kissing a big deal. How would you feel if some mildly cute girl walked up and kissed you? its not the end of the world haha. If you know how to escalate kino properly you should be in her personal bubble. If a girl makes me laugh i usually say something like haha, you're funny, and cute. Anytime you say a compliment or anything sexual dont break eye contact. It makes it seem dishonest. Then i grab her chin softly, turn her to me and give her a kiss. Escal…
/r/seduction04/10/12 01:47 PM
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I use this one too its really effective and conveying what you want from this girl immediately.
/r/seduction04/10/12 04:09 AM
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I'm not that tall, about 5'9 but thanks!
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:58 AM
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5'9 probably an 7.5-8 face depending on pimples and black.
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:02 AM
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yes of course, i just slowly work up keno, move my chair closer to hers. Have our knees touch. get up to go get a drink come back and lean over her. take a break and play a touching game like thumb wars or arm wrestle , whisper something making fun of someone in the room. and eventually kiss her. Sorry about the bitchy girls in your class, maybe you'll have better luck in the library or the cafeteria!
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:12 PM
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Parties and in class for the most part. I realized its all about making a move early. I used to sit around and wait 5-6 months to ask a girl out. Now i don't wait more than a week, sometimes I even get one the night i meet them. In class is prime, you've already got something common being in the same class and you can ask to be study buddies and get alone time with her. From isolation its only getting close and making a move. At parties its all about fun, A lot of guys sit on the wall and stare …
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:59 PM
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thanks partner
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:49 PM
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I'd say i have on average a couple dates per week. sometimes lunch, sometimes dinner.
/r/seduction30/09/12 01:35 AM
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I know this is late so it probably wont get seen, but my uncle gave me great advice a few years ago. He told me "now nlyles1, I don't go out often, but when I make up my mind to go out, I go out. I spare no expense. I don't worry about cost. If you've made up your mind to take someone out. Treat them and treat yourself. Don't spend time worrying about how much your meal is and how much your companies meal is. Eat what you want and allow them whatever." Now the man was a drunk, but its definitely…
/r/seduction29/09/12 11:23 PM
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Not my recommendation to field test this, it is good to look for cues to see whos available and whos not but walking up and making out with a girl is not something for anyone.
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:04 PM
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I feel they should replace r/atheism with us as a default subreddit.
/r/seduction23/08/12 07:24 PM
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You lost me once you called yourself a "rock star" sorry man.
/r/seduction18/08/12 06:19 AM
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If you're having problems having conversation, learn how to be a good listener. I was having problems keeping a conversation going because I was always trying to figure out what I would say next but if you listen you can find things you can relate too and the conversation naturally flows. When it comes to approach anxiety just walk up to her. As dumb as that sounds, just throw yourself into the situation and say hi, smile, and introduce yourself. If she gives you good feedback than you know your…
/r/seduction17/08/12 11:16 PM
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Just be like, i know we started out as friends, but over this time we've hung out i've become attracted to you. Not just physically, but emotionally. I love spending time with you and talking to you. You're just so smart and sexy and i know that you're married, but i really want to be with you. something along the lines of that, and if she rejects you than you can go back to being just friends and if not than congrats. Its a leap of faith man and sometimes you have to take it for what you want. …
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:59 PM
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Yeah but you can't go into that with that mindset. People cheat on each other because there is something they're not getting that relationship. Weather its sex, protection, love, support, fun, etc. When people get everything they need there's no need to go outside of a relationship. Obviously her husband isn't filling one or more of these needs. If you fullfill all her needs she'll never cheat on you. And relationship wise im the same, I've never had a "girlfriend", i just let things take their …
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:30 PM
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I know this isn't the most popular opinion on here but I think you should talk to her about it and tell her have feelings for her. Some of the best relationships I've ever seen have come out of the ashes of a dead one. My mom was living and engaged to a guy when she met my dad. They had been dating for 5 years and when she met my dad she left him in 3 days. They were married 3 months later and have been together for 22 years now. I know no one wants to be "that guy" but know that she wouldnt be …
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:15 PM
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I know its not my place but unless you and your girlfriend can work things out and be happy with each other. I say brake up. Legally she can't stop you from seeing your son and its better that a kid be raised by 2 seperate happy parents than 1 angry one. Kids can tell a lot and blame themselves easily
/r/seduction13/08/12 01:24 PM
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I know that feel bro
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:05 AM
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yeah, its funny when you realize campus is pretty much open season to talk to anyone for no particular reason. Its pretty awesome and now i try to do it as much as possible. Not just for ladies, but its great to meet new friends
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:27 AM
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great input! exactly what i was trying to say, i hope a lot of these guys have a great time and get to hook up with as many girls as they like, but i also wanted to warn them not to pass up on a great girl because you think this is time for debauchery. That can lead to just as much regret has having a LTR in college, but you're right, context is everything.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:24 AM
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Sorry for the poor quality I wrote it on my phone ill redo it later
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:32 AM
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I get where you're coming from, making the girl earn your affection, but the problem is this can sometimes come off as being rude. This would be fine once you've gotten to know each other and used for teasing purposes and kino as a good way to flirt but right now you're making a first impression. The best way I think to go about it is instead of going for the friend hug(wrapping around her shoulder with your hips parted like people in church) wrap your arms around her waist and pull her into you…
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:31 PM
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Man you have to learn to love yourself, work on your inner game and your outer game will shine. When you're down on yourself, comparing yourself to other people and society you've already lost the war. Learn to love yourself and be proud of who you are. When a guy is self concious or down on himself people can sense that and don't want to be around him. When someone loves themselves they have love to share and people want to be around them. change your mindset about yourself and the rest will fo…
/r/seduction22/06/12 01:01 AM
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I like it, the laughter lightens the mood letting her know your a fun partner
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:49 PM
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I honestly like music as a topic for a date, if youre back at each others places you can talk about it/share it with each other and if can really bring you closer to her if you can appreciate each others tastes. It also takes up a lot of "small talk" time making the situation a lot less awkward as well as her opening up to you. I like it and I'm all for it
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:32 PM
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You should have asked if she wanted to take a shower together, half the battle of sleeping with a woman is getting her to show you her naked self. once thats happened its pretty much downhill from there because they're no longer anxious of what you'll think about their body
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:12 PM
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It has nothing to do with putting your best self out there, it means do what you naturally want to do, if you see a girl go talk to her, dont shut yourself down because of the limits your ego has set upon yourself. I get what you're trying to say OP good post
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:03 PM
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