Common advice on this forum and many others is that texting should only be used to set up dates and timings. And I partially agree, but know that the less you text, the more susceptible you are to flakes. Which kind of forces these really quick date within 2-3 days because if you don't she'll lose interest.

We've all heard it, you go out, meet a girl, charm her a bit, maybe K close, get her number and feel great. You text her the next day saying you should meet up later this week. She agrees to a date and time 5 days from now when you're both free. 4-5 days later comes the date, she flakes with an excuse.

It's incredibly annoying right? All of this can be avoided with some solid texting and conversation broken with reason.

I'm not saying you need to "hey good morning beautiful" her and text her every minute of the day. Just keep a solid conversation once a day. And when conversation dies, excuse for long breaks with work, meetings, working out, anything. Or if you wanna keep talking, send her a joke, or a meme or a funny picture. You're redditors, you have millions of hours of useless entertainment on your phone every second of every day.

Texting isn't that hard. You arent on the spot like real life. You can actually take time to craft those little whitty sayings that always come 5 minutes too late. Instead of dreading what to say and replying to something quickly. Take your time and craft your text. Figure out if your response is the best response to what she said. Almost make it a game with yourself to see if you can send a solid text.

Not only is it going to keep her interested, you'll more than likely give her a lot to branch onto for her to reply with if she's a good conversationalist. And if she's not a good conversationalist, then she's probably not going to be much fun on your date either.

You can take this advice or leave it, but I believe texting allows you to show your best side. You have time to craft and structure exactly what you're saying unlike real life. And you'll also stay on this girls mind and be less susceptible to flakes. I think you'll also separate yourself from those guys she usually flakes on who just set up times and don't say anything else. When you don't say anything else it makes it seem like you're only interested in fucking, and not interested in her. Which works for some girls, others not so much. All women love attention from good looking guys. Work on your text game, and be able to provide her some of that attention.