Text Game: Need damage control advice with HB9 after first date

RandianHero · 2014-02-14T21:04:31+00:00

I wouldn't read too much into it. Just text her again about something different and don't bring it up again. I highly doubt she got completely put off by that little question, since it's pretty innocuous. Any number of things could've happened for her not to respond -- life gets in the way sometimes.

So just keep talking to her as if nothing happened. If she keeps failing to respond, don't sweat it and move on.

e_corleone · 2014-02-14T21:11:18+00:00

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chillassdude · 2014-02-14T22:47:47+00:00

Assume attraction my dude.

bl1y · 2014-02-14T23:12:32+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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HappyJerk · 2014-02-14T21:18:58+00:00

I reengaged with a HB9 I've known for a few years. I've pursued her at various times in the past, but failed to setup a meet-up.

I already know where this is going. Before reading the rest of your post, let me predict: she's hot/cold, shows extreme interest and then extreme rudeness. Basically you're friendzoned. Ok that's my prediction.

When we'd text

Why are you doing this???

When texting we should get together, she suggested either Sat. night or Sun. brunch.

She shouldn't be suggesting anything, you should. You're letting her take control. Bad bad. bad.

I saved this bar for last because I knew everyone that worked there. The doormen, the bartenders, the managers.

It sounds like you are trying too hard to show value. Girls can see through that shit. Social proof works best when its a surprise. Like some random person comes up to you and is nice.

I tried to find an opportunity to go for the k-close after we left, but it didn't present itself.

Fuck that, you make an opportunity.

I learned during the night that she only had 1 BF in her life, so that indicated to me she really doesn't put out.

That's not how it works, bra.

It was too serious and something that should have been saved to be asked in-person.

No its just fucking corny. Also, why are you trying to find ways to supplicate to her? You should be asking her "what is the nicest thing you've ever done for a guy" The "guy has to bend over backwards to make the girl like him model" is outdated and wrong.

I told myself I was going to let 2-3 days pass before texting her again to allow some buffer time.

Actually I would wait like a week. Maybe 2. Text her at some random time. No more conversations. Offer a definite time and place.

Oh, BTW. My prediction was right. She shows extreme interest (i.e., texting, the date, etc...), and then extreme rudeness (not responding to your text).

Title	Text Game: Need damage control advice with HB9 after first date
Author	e_corleone
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	February 14, 2014 9:00 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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