I’d consider myself above average looking (good facial structure, 6ft, doing bodybuilding so very athletic physique) but it seems like I struggle to get actual dates from my tinder and bumble matches.

I manage to hit it off great with witty banter in the first 1-2 messages but when I then proceed to logistics they stop replying. I thought texting is just about setting up dates but my intuition says me the people I’m matching with prefer to have longer conversation build up over even for several days.

Problem here is that I cannot imagine something more boring than proceeding to have a conversation about them over text (emotional heavy questions/topics) which usually is the date for. What am I missing out on?