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[–]t1mman 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In my experience, all those "guru" has their magic phrases and shit, and it's all snake oil!
I consider texting mostly as "setting up logistics for a date". Yes, you can converse, have a little back and forth but don't expect her to get her panties wet because of it.
You are new to this, so this might help you not go too far in the wrong path: All of those techniques and routine and shit are there to emulate aspect of life that are attractive. Having a good and well balanced life will pay a gazillion time more than "faking it" with those tactics. Eat well, exercises (both mind and body), have a career, goals, pursue them, have an interest in the person you are talking to and you'll turn out more attractive than all of these pseudo tactics.
Show your intentions, take (sensible) risks, adapt, accept that we don't connect with just anyone, be open minded / understanding and you'll be better than most people in life.
[–]HereticLloyd 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Noted, thank you!
[–]CharmFormula 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Text game is the worst form of communication. So much is lost in text. Sarcasm, vocal tone and emotions to name a few. So the guys in the PUA labs figured out what can work via text.
Keep in mind that the point of texting a girl is to pump her emotional state up in a positive way.
These are the methods that work for increasing her positive emotional state via text.
Sexual innuendo, push pull, cocky funny and sending cute pictures. emojis work too but are weak when compared to images or animated gifs.
The aim of texting is getting the meet up so you can run real game on her. So pump her positive emotional state with the above mentioned methods until she's reacting in a positive way then set up the date. She will be more likely to meet you if she FEELS something when chatting to you. ;)
[–]HereticLloyd 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Got it! Thanks!
[–]CharmFormula 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You can test these methods on tinder girls to see what works before you apply it to the girls you are interested in. ;)
[–]HereticLloyd 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Will definitely do! So it does make sense to allow her to reach a point when she only responds positively (not in a platonic way), never gives me silence or shit tests before trying to set up a date, right?
[–]CharmFormula 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
get her laughing and enjoying the texts. Keep her on her toes and wondering whats going to happen next. At the peek of the chat she will be commenting and interacting quite a bit. Then go for the meet.
Shit tests are mostly given at the start to see how you communicate. women only give shit tests to men they like. So if she gives it to you its a good sign. Silent treatment is never positive unless its part of an obvious joke or has a practical purpose.
[–]LingeringGnome 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't comply to the woman's frame, ever. You are the man. You are busy, you have shit to do. However, always convey positive emotions in text.
Get to the point, set up a meet within three text exchanges.
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