My tendency is to not text girls in between those first 2-3-4 dates except for one text the same night after the date and, by some things I've heard from people, it seems that maybe this is not the way to go. So, I'm wondering:

1) Are you supposed to be texting with the girl inbetween those initial dates (first 2-3-4)

2) What sort of stuff are you supposed to be texting her?

I'm totally lost on this one.

What are these texts supposed to be like? What sort of things are you supposed to say, what are you supposed to talk about? Are they for building comfort or attraction or what?

Feel free to explain obvious things, because I'm a bit autistic, which is probably why I'm lost on this question.