I find it weird texting a girl "Hey (her name) its me (my name)" It seems so plain and ugly. What would be a good grabber to keep her there? Most girls i text respond to the first message but after that they don't even bother. I know we're suppose to include something from the initial encounter but then after that what do I do? Do i ask her more questions then I ask her out on a date or what? Texting is by far harder than approaching the woman.