Work on yourself. Invest in yourself. Improve your self-esteem. Don't seek validation from women, seek validation from your own success, create an amazing life that'll attract women, move forward in your career.

These are all self help/self improvement/life coaching advices. They are good. No doubt about that but they are NOT Pick Up advices.

If you're a dude who has a stable job making a comfortable amount of income, you're ready to do pick up. That's it. If you need a Lamborghini to attract women, you don't have game.

But the thing is if you truly pursue pickup, you can be a victim of jealousy/hatred of your fellow men. I had an opportunity to meet a famous PUA who is happily married now and he warned me about this jealousy thing and his prophecy came true.

More often than not I get generic advices like Stop chasing women. Stop wasting your time, invest in yourself. You're manipulative, stop it. from all kinds of people.

But the thing is they themselves don't know what the fuck they are talking about.

If you're doing self improvement, perhaps you're chasing the american dream and if you're doing Pick Up, your chasing adventure. So there is a clear difference and whatever the case is, you're chasing something....

I remember the time when a girl asked me why I do all these, she was really curious (giving IOI).

My reply was, "One day I'm gonna die and at that day nothing will matter. I'll be gone forever. So I'm not gonna waste the little time I have here following some stupid standards."

She gave me a very confused look as if what she just heard wasn't real but since I really meant what I said my words resonated with her to the core. After a while I went kino. She was an acrobat in bed.