• Value and Attraction are correlated but they are not the same thing.

  • Attraction is short term. Value is long term.

  • Attraction isn't always logical. But value is quite logical most of the time.

  • Attraction is "boyfriend quality" while value is "husband quality".

  • The broke powerlifter chad emits attraction, the fat nerdy successful businessman emits value.

  • If she's attracted to you but doesn't see much value in you, you may not be able to keep her around for a long time. One the other hand, If she sees value in you but isn't really attracted, the relationship will be boring (if any).

  • Also if she is really attracted to you and sees a lot of value in you, you've the power in the relationship and vice versa.

And if all these sounds like some pseudopsychological mambo jambo, just look at some of the most popular eroticas.

"Kidnapped by The Billionaire"

Wtf, right? Well, it's about value. You never see an erotica named "Kidnapped by Homeless Dudes".

Just go to wattpad and you'll see tons of vampire & werewolf stuff. What does the Vampire, Werewolf and the chad have in common? Attraction. The werewolf lives in some old house in country side and works as a farmer and still she's somehow attracted to him.

Don't take everything I've said too literally. We still don't know how women's brain work but yeah how much she's attracted to you and how much value she sees in you is important nonetheless.

(Also hopefully I don't have to remind you that vampire, werewolf, chad, billionaire all these are just archetypes.)