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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just tell her you're going to the game, if she comes, great, if not, her loss.
[–]Byizo 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If a girl tells you no because she has plans or is generally noncomittal just move on. It's usually because she isn't interested. No reason to keep putting effort into someone who can't even counter with another time to meet.
[–]trpdgc 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. If she wanted to go she'll put in some investment. She did suggest you remind her, which is bullshit, but you have nothing to lose by giving her that reminder. If she says anything other than "yes" or "no, but we can hang out on xxx day" then never talk to her again. Definitely do not keep trying.
[–]knuckifyoubruck 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think she may be interested in you, but not football. There's a real chance that she just told you she liked watching football so you would find her interesting. Naturally, she wouldn't want to watch football with you and show that she actually knows little about it. The fact that she's responding is a good thing.
I would lighten it up a little and send a ridiculous text that she can't say 'maybe' to. Like, "Hey, wanna steal a hot air balloon this Friday and see if we can make to Hawaii by Monday?"
She'll either say yes, or no, or nothing. If she says nothing or just laughs, forget it, she's not interested. If she says yes, that's great! Text her Friday and say the hot air balloon thing didn't work out, but the bar is still open. If she says no and gives you another excuse, she's not interesting or giving you the runaround and not interested
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