Some of you who go out and approach random women on the street are getting burned out and turning something as fun as talking to attractive women into a chore. This should be recreational, not hard work. So let's put the fun back into talking to beautiful women.

  1. DON'T LOOK FOR VALIDATION! This is very important because anyone who randomly approaches anyone makes people's antennae go up. Even if a hot woman randomly started talking to you, you might be a little cautious. So don't look for validation, just use the approaches as a way to get over your shyness and become comfortable in talking to random women
  2. DON'T APPROACH WOMEN TO GET LAID. A major problem men have is they go out in hopes of getting laid. I use to have this problem when I was younger. Instead, go out to amuse yourself. See if you can amuse some attractive women as well. Don't feel like bad if she's not amused. Some people have different types of humor. Some people have no sense of humor. Just focus on making yourself happy when you talk to these women.
  3. You Don't Have To WOW Her. Trying to wow a woman comes from a place of neediness. The most successful men don't try to impress women, instead, they will interact with the woman and see how things go. If it goes well, the interaction continues. If it doesn't go so well, the interaction ends. Keep it simple and you'll get much better results.
  4. You're Approaching Her To See If You Like Her As A Person. Her face and body got you to approach her, but will you like her personality? Some guys just focus on the beauty and get tired of her once they have sex with her a few times. If you like her beauty and her personality, then she becomes more interesting. Determine if her personality is a good fit for you.
  5. The Goal Is Having The Power To Get Women. Something I like to say is, "It's not about getting 'the girl'... it's about having the power to get women". Don't fall in love with every woman you encounter and feel depressed if each and every one of them rejects you. As a matter of fact, rejection can be treated like falling is to judo. In judo, the first thing a person learns to do is fall. When you learn how to fall first, you won't get hurt so bad when you're thrown or slammed. When you get rejected hundreds of times in different ways, you learn how to recover. It also toughens up your emotions, which allows you to get over each rejection a lot quicker.

When you adopt this mindset, you become very grounded and more solid in the whole purpose of the cold approach. Once you let go of validation and getting laid with every approach you make, women will start being more receptive and easier to talk to. Why? Because you'll be more relaxed and start getting out of your head and into your body.