For 31 years I never knew about eye contact and the power it held when talking to people. Especially when talking to women. I never felt that connection before and I have to say that it's pretty awesome if you know how to do it properly without creeping the girl out lol. I always got rejected in the past because of that. I got a couple dates but it was purely based upon looks. I got so good with eye-contact that I'm able to hold a conversation and lead. After I learned that I used to take rejection seriously and wonder why it happened. I even got obsessed and wasted 2-3 years of my life over one girl which was sad and pathetic. Now I'm able to flirt with any girl and instantly move on because I know how to create that connection with someone else.