I love this subredddit. It's been a source of knowledge for myself and so many other guys. I really feel like there's a sense of community here, which is really cool.

That being said, I think one of the fundamental flaws of the way seduction is approached on this sub is that it is too advanced for many of the guys here who lack even the most basic social skills. Cold approach, Instadates, one night stands, and going to clubs alone is something that many of the inexperienced guys on here cannot fathom to achieve until they build more basic social skills.

Thankfully there are some great writers here (/u/hector_castillo is one) who have written excellent posts about the basics--like maintaining eye contact and building friendships with members of the same gender. If a guy can't socialize with other men due to anxiety and low social skills, then the idea that he will be able to cold approach that hot blonde that's a 10 is just absurd. Am I the only one who thinks this? For most visitors here, which are virgin guys in their late teens and early 20s, I think there needs to be more of an emphasis on basic social skills. Too bad there really isn't a decent sub that's like Seddit but for socializing in general.