Basically what I mean by this is, here we have reality with all its general guidelines on what can or cannot be done, what is most likely to happen, and so on and so forth.

Obviously, in terms of approaching women or "dating" or whatever you want to call it, reality for me is not something I can use. My reality by 1st world terms is terrible--it is against me in virtually every way. It's about as bad as it could get. I shouldn't have to repeat all this again, so I'll try to make it short. In my 30s, no experience with women, few if any achievements, no career, low prospects, still dependent, developmental issues and learning problems. I mean I look like a normal human being and I'd say my looks are average, but other good qualities are few and far between. I have my eccentric personality and passionate interests, but things like career and financial security, they are out of the question and improvement is unlikely.

What this means is I need to employ a Reality Distortion Field to have any chance at success. The goal is not a LTR, I'd be fine with anything as long as I can interact with a woman--but it'd be nice if it's not friend-zone stuff. So I need to be able to look at everything that is against me, and say "I don't care if I don't have status, etc., I'm just going to pretend it doesn't matter, and go out and approach."

Let's say I can use that mantra, repeat in endlessly, have it permeate my consciousness and almost begin to believe it. Does anyone think it could work? Could I re-program my own thinking to avoid the stigma of the "no status loser in his 30s" and have positive interaction with women?

Has anyone been able to use the Reality Distortion Field to get around a serious deficiency?