Does it feel like it’s taking forever for you to become that “new you” that gets every chick you want without trying?

Do you wish you could become fearless and get rid of your approach anxiety 100% so you can walk up to any woman you want in any situation?

Wouldn’t it be nice if you just oozed confidence and women just flocked to you everywhere you go?

Well, if you want to get amazing results from pickup you must first learn how to approach beautiful women consistently
. but it truly is easier said than done


You see the first time I came across the pickup community I was instantly hooked...

I couldn’t believe this shit!

There were actual steps I could take to become a lady’s man, and it could happen without me having to win the lottery or become a rapper.

I read tons of blogs and watched hundreds of youtube videos and I went out and tried to pickup some chicks.

But
. I realized quickly that this pickup shit is a lot harder than it seems.

These pickup gurus talk about the amazing lifestyle and experiences they have because of pickup, but what they don’t tell you is all the bullshit you have to go through in order to get good at it.

I can clearly remember going to the mall and walking around in circles for over 6 hours and doing ZERO approaches.

The sad part is that happened to me a bunch of times.

Even when I told myself, I would never let that happen again, it would still happen from time to time.

I was afraid of rejection
.I was afraid of people watching me and judging me
.I was afraid of being awkward
I was a little pussy cat
.

And then there were days where I was an approach machine, and I could literally approach anyone.

You see, when I just got into pickup I was a strict religious Christian, so I was mainly doing pickup because it gave me a way to express myself and improve my game without the consequences that come from making mistakes with women in your social circle.

My goal back then was to be able to develop my confidence by meeting women through “day game”.

I wanted to be able to approach, attract, and date women so I could have a girlfriend that I liked (on the inside and the outside).

I had a couple girlfriends before pickup, but those girlfriends pursued me, and made it easy, but whenever I met a girl that I actually liked, I was too pussy to ask her out.

So, basically, I was the kinda guy who just took what he could get


Pickup was my opportunity, to change my life. It gave me an opportunity to become more assertive and confident with women.

However, it took me many years to figure out how to approach women consistently.

Approach anxiety was a nightmare for me because it struck randomly.

Some days my approach anxiety would be really bad and some days it would be non-existent.

I would buy self-help books about overcoming fear and being confident and I would watch podcasts but for some damn reason I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t get over approach anxiety.

But after many years of buying book after book and being at the mercy of my approach anxiety I realized that I made a decision a long time ago that was limiting my ability to approach women and develop my pickup skills.

When I started pickup I made the decision to take it “seriously”.

However, I didn’t realize that being serious about pickup limited my game significantly.

Yes, you read that right.

Taking pickup seriously may limit your ability to approach, escalate, and take risks with beautiful women.

You see fear is a manifestation of too much seriousness. Fear is what holds us back from taking action and making the right moves with women.

However, it’s quite difficult to feel fear, when you’re in a humorous state.

When you decide to see the humor in everything, you basically become unaffected by rejection, judgment, and even pain.

Once I decided to stop taking pickup seriously and see it as a joke, my problems with approach anxiety became manageable. I started to take control of my mind, and my ability to approach consistently.

I could go out and feel approach anxiety, but immediately choose to laugh at my approach anxiety, and laugh at myself for having approach anxiety (which freed me up to take action).

I began to laugh at the world and how fucked up it can be.

I began to laugh at women who rejected me without even getting to know me.

I began to laugh at societies rules and how everyone is trying to fit in.

I began to laugh at fear.

I began to laugh at failure.

Look, I’m not sure if humor will change the game for you, but it sure did for me.

Ask yourself, “Am I taking this pickup thing a too damn seriously?”

If being serious about pickup works for you then more power to you, but for me it was the opposite.

The more I focused on making pickup fun and laughing at my insecurities and weaknesses, the more I was free to approach beautiful women which led to better results.

I became more attractive and started attracting women naturally. I’ve learn to accept “approach anxiety” and all the things that suck about life, but I’m still able to get what I want because I just don’t give a shit about my problems and weaknesses.

There is always a way to get what you want.

There are people with mental and physical disabilities who are still able to operate within society successfully.

There are no excuses for me or for you.

Stop taking your problems and insecurities so seriously.

Laugh at that shit.

Trying to fix everything is just going to make you miserable.

Do what you can to improve your game, but don’t expect to become Mr. Big Pimp overnight.

Do what you can with what you have and learn to see the humor in life.

Fuck approach anxiety, Fuck confidence, and Fuck all that other bullshit.

Focus on your goals and have fun no matter what.

A lot of shit that you take seriously now will be a big joke to you later, so why don’t you just laugh now?