HOW TO GET AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN’S ATTENTION WITHOUT TRYING

If you want to get a woman’s attention, you must create the perception that you have what she wants, and you must make it challenging for her to get it.

If she perceives you to be like every other “average” guy who would do anything for her attention, you WILL NOT get her attention.

You won’t even register in her mind as an option.

So, you need to know what your value is to women.

You should know your value so well that you could write it down or say it in 30 seconds.

If a beautiful woman was to drop all the other men she is talking to, commit to you 100%, and give you full compliance…..what would you be able to give her in return?

This is a very important question you must ask yourself.

Your value needs to be something that will make her want you the instant she realizes that you have it.

If you don’t have that kind of value, you’re not going to be able to get a woman’s attention.

So, before you can get a woman’s attention without trying, you need to be get a woman’s attention in general.

Why should a woman pay attention to you?

Let’s dive into what women find attractive in a man, and how you can get her attention.

=============================================== Examples Of Irresistible Values

If she gets with you her status will increase significantly If she gets with you she will become more beautiful, more confident, and a better communicator

If she gets with you she won’t have to worry about money and her quality of life will increase significantly

If she gets with you she will have the best sex life she’s had in years

If she gets with you she will laugh more, and live a more joyful life

Think about those examples of value that women would find irresistible.

Can you provide those values to a woman’s life?

What if you could provide a combination of those values, don’t you think women would be more attracted to you?

Here’s the tricky part about being a high-value man.

You can’t brag or tell a woman about your value.

You must communicate your value to a woman without really trying.

It needs to be communicated in a natural and sort of a nonchalant manner.

It needs to be communicated in your body-language, and in the way you carry yourself.

It needs to be communicated by her just being around you and seeing it for herself.

The best way to sell yourself is to let your value speak on your behalf.

If you’re going out of your way trying to prove your value to women, then your value probably isn’t as high as you think it is.

When your value is high, you don’t have anything to prove.

You don’t have to convince a woman why she should be with you.

You know that you deserve beautiful women because when they are around you, their quality of life increases.

=============================================== What You Need To Know About Having Irresistible Value

Irresistible value is something you can’t fake in the long-term.

Yes, it is possible to fake your way to creating the perception that you’re a high value man, but you can’t fool a woman forever.

She might fall for your scam for a few hours or even a few days, but eventually she will realize that you don’t have the value that she thought you did. As a result, she will leave you.

It’s easy to think of what women would find irresistible in a man, but it’s not easy to deliver that irresistible value.

The key to having consistent success with women, is to communicate irresistible value consistently.

This is not something you do once and then you never have to do it again.

If you’ve been interacting with women for some time now, you’ve probably noticed that women like to test and challenge us men.

If you continuously fail those tests and challenges she will begin searching for a higher value man.

So, coming up with an irresistible value doesn’t mean you will start attracting women left and right.

There is a core set of values that you need to have in place first before you will start attracting women.

=============================================== THREE CORE VALUES

1.) Integrity – You need to be the kind of man who communicates his value clearly and provides that value consistently throughout his relationships with women.

I remember when I just started going out and picking up women I would have great first interactions and I would get the women’s numbers, but the dates would be boring and awkward.

That used to happen to me because I was putting on a façade in the initial interaction and then when the woman got on the date with me she saw the real me and they realized I wasn’t the guy I presented in the initial interaction. I was lacking integrity and my results were very poor because of that.

I learned that the value you communicate to a woman needs to stay consistent throughout the entire relationship. If she was attracted to your sense of humor, that sense of humor needs to stay present throughout the entire relationship if you want it to work. The same thing goes with any other value that was communicated to her initially.

If you don’t have the integrity to consistently be the man who you presented to a woman when you met her, you will lose her.

2.) Honesty – You need to communicate who you truly are and accept that your value will not be right for every woman you meet. If you are a funny guy, then be funny and don’t try to be Mr. Serious the minute you run into a girl who doesn’t appreciate your humor. Women can sense when you’re not being yourself and it’s an instant attraction killer.

Start with being honest to yourself. Accept the parts of you that make you who you are, but at the same time don’t accept the parts of yourself that you don’t like.

If you don’t like something about yourself do something about it or learn how to accept it. You need to be happy with who you are before you will be able to attract women at a high level, so work on becoming the version of yourself that you accept and then you will naturally become more honest with women. This will result in an increase in your ability to attract women in your life.

3.) Certainty – You need to communicate to women that you know who you are, and you know what you want. Women are attracted to men who are dominant and men who are not afraid to lead. At the core of dominance and leadership is certainty. When you make a decision you need to commit to that decision whether you may be wrong or right, confident or afraid.

A woman will not submit to you or even pay much attention to you if you’re unsure and timid in your actions and words. Be the kind of man who stands for something even when you’re terrified. This can be one of the most difficult values to stick by, but it’s also one of the most attractive values to have, so you must decide whether you want to be comfortable or you want to be successful.

=============================================== THE FIVE STEPS TO GETTING HER ATTENTION WITHOUT TRYING

Here are the five steps to getting an attractive woman’s attention without trying:

1.) Communicate Your Specific Irresistible Value First ask yourself what very specific value(s) are you offering? Who are the specific types of women you’re trying to attract with your specific value(s)?

Once you’ve answered those questions, you need to start living your life knowing what your value is and communicating your value daily to every woman you meet.

Your mindset should be, “I know my value and I will communicate it to every woman I meet. The women who are attracted to me because of my value are the women I will choose from, and those who are not attracted to my value can get on with it.”

2.) Benefit The Lives Of The Women You Attract Once you start communicating your value to women consistently, you will start attracting women. Once you start attracting women, you need to continue to benefit them with your value and by doing this other women will notice whether directly or indirectly.

You will begin to create the perception that you are preselected and you will also create the perception that when women get with you, their lives get better.

3.) Continue To Demonstrate & Increase Your Value Daily If you continue to demonstrate your value and increase your value daily, your ability to attract women will naturally improve.

As a result, you will notice more women entering your life and you will have more options. Your results will motivate you to continue increasing your value daily, and you will notice that you’re now at a level where you’re attracting women without really trying. You’re simply working on improving yourself and reaping the benefits that come with that.

4.) Take Advantage Of Social Media To Increase Your Reach Once you become a “high value” man it becomes your duty and obligation to put your value out there and improve the lives of as many women as you can. You don’t have to look at it that way, but that is a frame I use and it works well for me. It’s the idea that with great power comes great responsibility.

A “low value” man has no business trying to attract women because he has nothing to offer them but on the other hand, the “high value” man” has a ton to offer women and therefore he should.

So, one way you can increase your ability to reach lots of women in a short period of time is to leverage social media. Post pictures of the women who you spend time with. Take pictures of how happy and full of life the women are when they are apart of your life.

What this will do is communicate to other women that you have high value and you are currently sharing that value with women. Other women will want to experience the value that you’re already giving to the women who are currently in your life.

5.) Enjoy The Rewards That Come With Being An Irresistibly Valuable Man

When you become a man with “irresistible value” you get to enjoy a life that most men can only dream of. I know what it’s like to be a “low value” man and I never want to go back to that ever again.

There are few things worse than having little to no results with women. I can look back on my life and say that I was most miserable and depressed in the periods of life where I was underachieving with women.

Now that I’ve developed myself into a man of value, I have options with the women I find attractive.

If you're interested in becoming irresistibly attractive to women, apply the tips I gave you here and go out there and become a man of value.