When you interact with women they will subconsciously size you up. Women get hit on all the time and they need to be able to weed out the "low value" men and attract the "high value" men. After years of being hit on by lots of men, women have naturally developed the ability to quickly determine whether a man is worth their time or not.

The list below is made up of things that you should NOT do if you want to create attraction in women and avoid "turning women off".

1) Seeking Validation and Approval From Women - Most men interact with women in hopes that the women they interact with will validate and approve them. So, their behavior becomes manipulative and this is gives women a reason to put up a defensive wall when men try to approach and talk to them.

When you interact with a woman you have the opportunity to stand out from most guys by taking your "mask off" and having a "real" interaction with her. What this means is you should let go of the urge to impress the woman, and just have a genuine interaction with her.

Forget about trying to be the cool guy or the funny guy. Just be present to the moment and let go of expectations or attachment to the outcome.

The problem with seeking validation and approval from women is that it communicates a form of manipulation that women are well aware of.

Women know that men will pretend to be nice or act like they have all these things in common with them because they want to get in their pants. Men will pretend to be confident, cool, or successful just to impress them.

What you need to keep in mind is that you are not the first man that a woman has interacted with. She has experience interacting with tons of different men, and she has the ability to detect subtleties in your behavior that communicate "this guy is full of shit".

So, instead of trying to be the perfect guy when you interact with women, "let go" and just be real. Be who you truly are and don't apologize for who you are. If the "real you" is unable to connect with the woman you're interacting with, then it means you're not compatible with that woman and you should move on to another woman.

2) Fear of Rejection - Most men are so afraid of rejection that they won't approach a woman in the first place. However, the fear of rejection is something you have to deal with both before and during the approach.

Once you muster up the courage to approach a woman, you still have to maintain that courage throughout the entire interaction with that woman. When you interact with a woman she will subconsciously pick up on whether or not you're truly a confident guy or if you're just putting on a front.

Feeling the fear of rejection is not the problem, the problem comes when you let that fear control you. There will be points in your interaction where you will need to risk possible rejection in order to move the interaction further.

If you let the fear of rejection hold you back from taking risks within the interaction, the woman you're interacting with will notice that on a subconscious level and that communicates to her emotional weakness.

Most women are looking for an emotionally strong man, so you need to embrace rejection as a part of life, and don't let it hold you back from leading and taking risks in your interactions with women.

3) Avoiding and/or Not Maintaining Eye Contact - When you see a woman you find attractive and she looks back at you, the last thing you want to do is look away. When you look away, you communicate weakness, and you communicate to a woman that you're intimidated by her beauty.

What you should do instead, is hold strong eye contact with her and smile. Maintaining strong eye contact and smiling at a woman communicates confidence and social intelligence. Most men have a hard time holding eye contact with women in the initial approach and throughout their interactions with women.

By maintaining eye contact when you're talking to a woman you will stand out from most men and communicate that you're comfortable in the presence of a woman.

4) Decreasing In Value - When a woman interacts with you, she is subconsciously paying attention to how much value you have.

There are the obvious values that us men can communicate such as looks, money, and wealth, and then there are other values such as leadership, dominance, personality, and preselection to name a few.

Each time you communicate with a woman you have the opportunity to increase or decrease your perceived value in her eyes.

When you interact with a woman and she notices that your value is decreasing, she will begin to lose attraction for you. If your value continues to decrease over a long period of time, you will eventually turn her off completely.

If your goal is to attract beautiful women in your life and keep them in your life, then you need to increase your value daily and communicate your increased value to the women you interact with consistently.

5) Giving Your Power Away - One of the fastest ways to turn a woman off is to give your power away to her. Letting a woman boss you around, letting her call the shots, and not standing up for yourself is not an effective way to attract women. Women are attracted to powerful men.

If you're a powerful man, you should maintain your power when you interact with women.

I know guys who are tough around their friends and don't take shit from anybody, but if you put those same guys around women, they start acting like little pussycats. All of a sudden they will start agreeing with everything the woman says, and they will try to be polite and nice.

If you want to create and increase attraction with the women you meet, you should never give your power away. Know your values, and what you stand for, and don't back down when a woman challenges you. Women will challenge you to see if you're mentally and emotionally strong enough to deal with them, and if you submit to their challenges then you will communicate weakness.

6) Weak body language - One of the ways women can determine whether you're a man of value or not is through your body language. The way you carry yourself speaks louder than words.

If you walk around with your head down, avoiding eye contact, shoulders hunched, and a frown on your face, you will communicate that you are a low value man with no self-esteem.

Women are very good at noticing subtleties in our body language that communicate weakness and submissiveness. Your body language is an outside expression of your beliefs and thoughts. If you let negative thoughts and doubts take control of your mind then it will show in your body language.

Just keep this in mind when you interact with women. Women are constantly observing your body language and in most cases it communicates more to a woman than what comes out of your mouth.

7) Being Timid and Unsure Of Yourself - When you interact with women it's always best to own what you say and own what you do, even if what you're doing might seem wrong. For example, if you make a silly joke and the woman doesn't laugh, you should own the joke and continue the conversation. The wrong thing to do would be to apologize for making the joke, or stop making jokes because she didn't laugh.

You need to know who you are and accept yourself before any woman will accept you. If you're going to do something, do it 100% and don't hold back.

If you want to approach a woman then approach her. If you want to talk to a woman about sports, then talk to her about sports. If you want to ask a woman on a date, then ask her on a date.

Don't wait for the perfect moment or take actions in a sheepish manner. Be decisive. Know exactly what you want to do and go for it 100%.

Not every woman is going to accept your advances but at least they will respect you for going for what you want.