Things fizzle out quickly?

VodkaStaysh · 2015-11-14T23:00:58+00:00

periods up to a week or more where I don't talk to them.

puaCurveBall · 2015-11-15T00:44:17+00:00

It's really hard to diagnose stuff from 3 short paragraphs.

I'm going out on a limb and say you are playing too much of the "character" of the dominant alpha, so you really aren't letting girls know the real you, so it makes you distant and they sense that... they never feel like they are getting to know you.

You need to learn to bridge this alpha dominant character with your own vulnerability and personality

SexySmexxy · 2015-11-15T05:43:25+00:00

I personally have never agreed with the whole "Only talk to the girl to schedule dates".

I think it's too cold and calculated.

Just don't make meaningless conversation.

Now the thing is, there are some amazing girls you can literally just kick back and talk with, send funny pics and like all the same things you do and you can talk with them about like, video games, anime and also how you'd love them to sit on your face all in 45 minutes.

Other girls are just kinda dicks, not that they aren't worth the time or anything, but they are used to the whole "don't reply too often to not seem needy, use short sentences to seem disinterested" bullshit, because they've had it done to them in the past and they've done it in the past.

It's pretty obviously within the first day or two exactly what kind of girl you're dealing with though so...play accordingly.

MassiveResponse · 2015-11-15T02:37:27+00:00

I would say you need to connect with them more, as well as maintain the attraction. Don't let that stuff fizzle out.

Title	Things fizzle out quickly?
Author	carlospicywiener2121
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	November 14, 2015 10:13 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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