So, I'm 28, reasonably attractive and have been on my own for about 7 years. It's not as pathetic as it sounds (she said hopefully)! I've had the odd date here and there, but nothing that's really caught and held my fancy. I was with a guy for a long time and to nick a line from Dogma 'he sorta screwed up my relationship awareness parameters!' Anyway, without going into too much boring detail, after finally rediscovering my confidence, I'm ready to get out there and see what's what! Unfortunately, I have the flirting skills of that vomity kid from Southpark! I have absolutely no idea how to approach guys. I can't even say 'hi' without making a totally douchebag of myself! Short of making one of my besties go up to a cutie, tap him on the shoulder and say 'my mate fancies you', I'm lost! Advice would be greatly apprieciated and in return I promise to try not to puke on your shoes!