Guys generally prefer girls who can add value to their lives by being attractive. This signals to everyone else that the guy himself is high value enough to have a hot girlfriend.

Girls generally prefer guys who can add value to their lives by being interesting, funny, witty, and not boring. This signals to everyone else that she is high value enough to enrich a guys already-fascinating life.

This basic formula really influences everything else about how men and women approach flirting and seduction differently. A guy's perfect idea of being seduced would generally be a physically attractive girl asking him if he wants to have sex. A girls perfect idea of being seduced would generally be an interesting, smart, cool guy with awesome friends inviting her into his interesting, fun, cool life.

At its core, seduction is simply the process of indirectly demonstrating to women that you are fun, intelligent, and have a cool life. Doing it DIRECTLY is called bragging or being arrogant. Doing it INDIRECTLY is called being a smooth motherfucker. Remember: SHOW, don't TELL. So you need to conduct yourself and act like you are that guy. For example, you can't just tell a girl in a bar, "I'm a high-value man who is accustomed to interacting with beautiful women", so instead you have to convey that same concept through your actions. So you playfully tease her and hold a fun, normal conversation without supplicating, for the sheer joy of the interaction. That's something women find much more attractive than The Situation abs.

If you aren't that guy, than you can pretend you are using canned lines and DHV tricks, but the more you practice, the more natural you'll be. Then you'll turn itself INTO that guy. That's why seemingly unrelated things like "get a hobby" are often thrown around as advice here on Seddit. We're trying to help you BECOME that guy who doesn't have to try to attract women, but is simply attractive TO women.