I am a long time lurker, but I've been reading for a while and with the help of this community I've become a somewhat outgoing attractive human being. The material here definitely put me over the edge from 'Forever Alone' to enjoying the company of women and becoming a confident male. I was able to get rid of AA and my beta personality which was all I needed to be appealing. I now have a girlfriend and she is awesome, we have a great time together.

This community gets frowned upon by women because of it's at a glance persona of being "How to have sex with women". However, what they don't realize is the amount of people who end up having happy successful relationships and lives all from some basic human nature understanding. That is what I take from it. These are tools to make you successful with women, yes. But also with EVERYONE you interact with.

My most important success tool:

  • Confidence - This is always said but it is so important. Get into a mental state where you are happy with yourself, before you try to make other people happy. This also has to do with taking charge, and making decisions. I started being the leader in my group of friends and when trying to make plans. This leads to so many other attractive positive traits.

I'm sure this is mostly already known, but I wanted to share my small story and thank this community for the information you have given me to lead an enjoyable life.

So, THANKS SEDDIT, you guys are awesome.