This is basically just a repeat of what you will hear/read anywhere on this forum (or the seduction community as a whole) but with slightly changed perspectives that have helped me really understand what is going on out there. The new viewpoints have proved valuable to me, so I thought I would share them. As always, criticism is encouraged.

  1. The "game" basically has two parts, first is establishing that you have more power (I use this term loosely, status might be a better word in most circumstances but doesn't fit across the board) while the second is proving that you actually believe that. The first part is really easy as most girls will accommodate it, but they will try to break that image more and more as the interaction progresses. Don't let them.

  2. Belief > Emotion. I've found that all this stuff about being excited, moving around a lot and being super social isn't really going to help you in any way besides maybe allowing you to talk to more people. For the most part I've found it makes you look like a clown when it is out of character. Own your emotions, they are a part of being a person but realize that you can't really control them - your beliefs define you. When I stopped trying to feel like a confident and capable person and started to believe that I was confident and capable was the biggest upswing I've ever had in my game (and life).

  3. You control your lifestyle. If you want to date a lot then you can choose a job that allows you to go out for lunch. If you think that working for a big-4 accounting firm takes priority over that, that's fine, but understand that you've made a choice that work is more important than play and don't apologize. It is pointless to complain that you aren't interesting enough, or don't have enough friends, or don't have anywhere to bring a girl, etc. etc. etc. (a huge % of posts here are about stuff like this). The fact is that short term, you can change anything you want to make your immediate environment better for attracting women and feeling good about yourself. Generally any logistical/lifestyle excuse is just that, an excuse. Any of you smart people could figure out a way around these issues with 10 minutes of thought - so choose to do that rather than dwell in a world of can'ts.