I almost always end a Tinder date with a K or F close. I can never seem to get a second date though. I'm not looking for anything serious, but would like to have at least a few casual relationships.

I wonder what I could be doing wrong. It's like they will almost always let me do anything to them, so there isn't usually a problem in terms of escalating. But they want nothing to do with me after it seems. Maybe this is partly the nature of Tinder, maybe I have bad breath, I dunno. But also I am working with the theory that I am giving them too much validation somehow.

So instead of posting tedious recaps of dates, I am wondering if more advance guys have general advice or theory in terms of working the validation angle. I have a feeling that this is it... so I want to put this particular skill into practice if anyone would be so kind as to provide insight/resources. To be clear, this would be validation AFTER things have gotten physical.