Tinder. How has quick date closes work?

Rx_Love · 2014-03-26T15:23:46+00:00

Total numbers game, and an awesome one at that. I've had a handful of girls spend the night/weekend with me as a result of it. Def a fun thing to do when you're taking a dump.

It doesn't follow the same laws of attraction that real world interactions do, at least in my experience.

My usual SOP is: -say something engaging (response rate of about 30%)

-Continue a conversation with witty little things that distinguish you from the hordes of douchebags on Tinder aka let them know you are normal enough and worth their time. (This clips about 10% more off, leaving you with 1/5th of original right swipes engaged)

-After sufficient rapport has been built(1-3 days usually) add eachother on snapchat. I do this because it gives you a more realistic representation of what they ACTUALLY look like. The Tinder effect is very real aka every gal on there is at least 15 lbs heavier than pictured. After a few fun snapchats should I decide she is worth pursuing:

-"Hey this is ridiculous, you seem like a normal gal - here's my real number" -9 out of 10 times you get a text from a new random number within about 5 minutes saying "hey its tindergal"

From there you proceed as if you had gotten her number in a coffee shop or something, more traditional methods can be applied.

Start to finish it usually takes between 3 days to a week to have a tinder gal spend the night.

It does happen where they come over that same night too though, its just all kinds of weird fun.

Jake_STi-RA · 2014-03-26T06:06:49+00:00

It's a numbers game. I know this is the tried and true advice in the seduction community, but it's especially true for Tinder.

The app is designed for the user to swipe through hundreds of people in minutes. Figuring you pick a few of your best photos and you have a few lines for a joke of a 'biography' the app is designed on first impressions only. If people put thought into the people they swipe through, they're wasting their time and should go to OKCupid instead or even barf Plenty of Fish.

If you're good looking, don't seem like a psychopath, and somewhat flirty with your syntax, you'll get a bite. It only works if both parties are interested figuring how poor quality the app is.

Besides, when has seduction ever been based mostly from texting anyways? Just food for thought.

Go ahead; come up with the most whitty and flirty line. It won't make a difference if she isn't interested you in the first place and won't make you converse better in person.

Oh yes, and this is only applicable AFTER you get a mutual like.

ackshunpact · 2014-03-26T09:17:03+00:00

Waste of time.

masterrod · 2014-03-26T13:28:20+00:00

I think /u/Jake_STi-RA Is right on... Just come up with one line and swipe... This isn't about seduction just timing..

Title	Tinder. How has quick date closes work?
Author	DefinitelynotCam
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Comments	4
Date	March 26, 2014 5:26 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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