Tinder is a confusing place

bigly87 · 2018-09-27T20:27:26+00:00

I found tinder so crappy, personally i think so many girls are there to get either attention by getting matches or Have more followers on theirs IG. Don’t waste your time on it, or if do, don’t take it serious.

bk4ub · 2018-09-27T21:27:02+00:00

Dude it's cuz there's like 5 million guys trying to get with a hundred girls always...better make it whity!!

HolySpaceInvader · 2018-09-27T19:42:35+00:00

I have a similar problem. Try using a 60/40 mindset when it comes to interacting. She should be giving most of the attention, after all, she’s the girl who needs to use tinder. Edit: unmatch her ass if she doesn’t carry mutual interest.

quinnmcd · 2018-09-28T01:19:23+00:00

girls definitely use tinder for validation and a confidence boost. Tinder makes a 2 feels like a 6, when in reality guys some guys will try to fuck anything with a vagina and two legs. I know girls that match with other girls, talk to them for weeks with no intentions to ever meet up. Okay i'm not gonna rant today.

To weed the time wasters try to get a higher quaintly of matches.

don't match with girl with nothing in their bio or just an ig/snapchat username.
put something in your bio like "if you have no intentions to meet up don't match with me"
Let women with half ass response know that they are disrespecting your time
ask off the wall or out of the original questions that require thought

Do your best to break your addiction to tinder. When you put too much time in effort into online dating your ruin your own mental health, when you don't get results back from the time you're putting in. Try limiting yourself to only an hour every couple days. Tinder shouldn't your main source of women it should only be a tool you use when you're not approaching women. With women you approach in person your chances of seeing her again and actually getting a date are much higher.

JUST_WANTTOBEHAPPY · 2018-09-28T03:43:38+00:00

I'm an average looking dude with some decent good Tinder bio. been using tinder on and off for almost a year, match over 100 woman and only date 4 girls and 2 hookup. Which I still hookup once a while.

So yeah used it as secondary tool to get woman, not your sole dependant source of getting laid. If not you will drive yourself crazy and depressed lmao

Shadow__Account · 2018-09-28T13:52:59+00:00

I think girls get so much attention there that its easy for them to lose interest because something else or better or more fun comes along before they are really hooked.

Like i will sort of hook pretty fast with a girl because i am only talking to a couple at the same time and sometimes even just 1 and that will make me invested in the conversation, but it doesn't happen that fast the other way around.

She will probably get 10 " funny" " distracting" messages popping up while you talk, so you have to hook her pretty fast and effective and of course accept that there is far from a 100% success rate because of these things.

I usually try to keep leading towards her number or a date while making statements more than questions, make assumptions so she gets invested etc, make edgy jokes for emotional spikes to get her to hook but sometimes it just doesnt happen and i lose interest as well when i turn into some dancing monkey that's trying to hook her.

Long story, but either its just circumstances with which you cant change much about or it's the things you say and or ask which you can change. Maybe you are just being too much of a standard guy asking about work and shit?

Title	Tinder is a confusing place
Author	Igethedripfromywalk1
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 27, 2018 7:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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