Tinder or bumble

Kjohn1990 · 2019-03-15T21:36:11+00:00

Just do what everyone else does, randomly ask a bunch of girls then stay home that night and whack it

djdante · 2019-03-15T21:10:20+00:00

Hey bud, I'm going to give you some feedback you may/may not like, but it's the feedback you need.

Your question suggests a lack of underlying understanding of the sexual escalation process, along with a lack of understanding of general social calibration.

Online dating is rarely just a 'hey wanna F@#$' process, it's a pickup like any other at a bar or during the day.

As a guy who's had a very large number of sexual encounters through tinder/bumble I can honestly tell you there's no 'simple' advice I or anyone else can give you that will get you laid easily tomorrow. You learn to tease, banter, sexual innuendo, screen her wants/needs, calibrate socailly, line up the right date based on that, create comfort, more banter, sexual escalation/screening on the date, then pull the trigger. But that's easy to write down and it's a hefty skillset to learn. SURE on ocacsions guys will be lucky and find a chick who just wants to fuck now - But I rarely found them, and some of them turned out to be my groupies, so that's kind of cheating anyway.

The best thing you should do is line up dates and just have normal conversation first. Are you capable of having a non-sexual date with a girl from Tinder and have her want to see you again? If not, you DEFINITELY aren't going to be able ot meet with a girl from Tinder and have sex wtih her.

It's certainly a matter of walk before you run.

VIGILANCE981 · 2019-03-15T21:38:12+00:00

Yeah

ZarathustraSpenta · 2019-03-15T21:53:54+00:00

IRL cold approach with number close is best

Title	Tinder or bumble
Author	VIGILANCE981
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	March 15, 2019 8:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b1jw7j/tinder_or_bumble/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/tinder-or-bumble.1464414 https://theredarchive.com/post/1464414

Comments