[Tip Request] Getting On Her Mind

RytekBJJ · 2016-12-28T20:37:59+00:00

Women think about men they are attracted to, and their attraction increases if they think about you positively or decreases if they think about you negatively.

Playing hard to get can work sometimes, but only up to a point. Once a woman wants to go out with you then there's no reason to wait anymore. Waiting after she wants to go out just risks her becoming bored of the same rehashed thoughts about you or that she'll meet other guys she likes. In both cases she stops thinking about you and loses interest in going out with you.

To get her thinking about you you need to create emotional tension. Think like a boom or movie, you want to see how the story progresses. You need to display masculine traits she can be attracted to and show some interest in her but not too much interest that she knows for sure what's going to happen next. When you read a book it is still enjoyable even if you can guess how the story probably ends, but kinda boring if you already know for sure how it ends.

Murfdigidy · 2016-12-28T22:03:46+00:00

The game is push pull push pull, you ONLY pull away when you know she's all about you, or showing true IOIs. The only way I play hard to get is by teasing girls. I dont play hard to get by not being with her. Its a tough game trying to predict when you should play hard to get. I typically dont pull away I usually show resistance as Im flirting with her right in front of me. I tease girls, I call them dorks, I playfully tickle them, or push them telling them they're trouble or being a dork. Depending how much I think theyre interested I'll talk to other girls, not in a malicious way, but in a way , that hey Im a fun guy and I talk to everyone, I flirt with everyone. This again is showing a pull. Girls are all about the moment, so be careful playing hard to get when the girl is ready to rip your shirt off and make out with you. You always pull the trigger when you've built enough sexual tension between the two of you. Never end it and say okay I'll see you next weekend etc. Girls emotions change in an instant, and that chance to hook up may not be there next time ifyoure too busy playing hard to get

LazlikesAlly · 2016-12-28T20:34:54+00:00

I'm a big believer in "slow game" and being more patient with results. People need time to be warmed up. It can be very easy to stay on someone's mind if done right.

I talk about this in my Snapchat Guide to Game.

Do you use Snapchat at all?

blackjesus75 · 2016-12-29T02:25:46+00:00

Be attractive
Don't be unattractive
Be funny
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Title	[Tip Request] Getting On Her Mind
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Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	December 28, 2016 8:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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