After reading many posts it seems that best way to get women's response is to tease them after you open up. This I guess also helps in passing her shit test. 

I guess being teasing and playful comes with experience.  However, for those of use starting now ( and/or late ) and don't have anyone else to observe in field,  what are sources for learning how to tease and being playful with women ?

Any books , videos, personal experiences are highly appreciated.