Tips on going out solo?

jonnnnathhhaann · 2026-05-02T22:45:10+00:00

Don’t think about what to say, instead feel and say with your heart what you want to say.

I find it easier when something I want to say comes up like an eight ball and I just say it comes off as genuine but majority of the time just be yourself Don’t try to control it even the outcome. Let it flow.

Kylearean · 2026-05-03T00:36:07+00:00

Just be natural. Casually ask if she wants to play pool.

Schtoogles · 2026-05-03T02:32:24+00:00

Bar crawls. Go with the intention of having a good time, talking to new people, and making friends.

tdz2023 · 2026-05-03T04:51:13+00:00

Are you playing pool alone?

Solo or not, what I'd do if I were you is to walk straight to the girl you're interested in. If she's with her friends (most likely she will be), then open her THEN talk to her friends. This is so important.

As a guy who does game, I've been in so many situations where I'm with friends (girls), someone approaches one of them, but ignores everyone else in the group. That's the fastest way to make the group feel bad, which works against you.

That said, make your opener simple:
- 'Hey, i saw you and wanted to say you look kind of interesting/cute/adorable. If she's hot I say 'interesting' if she's okay, I say cute/adorable.

- She'll say 'thank you' to which you reply 'you're welcome + my name is [your name]... and you look like a Stacey (or whatever -- come up with a name). This is an assumption---and a test.

-She'll probably either tell you her name or ask why you said Stacey. If she asks, you can just come up with something like: I dunno. I just feel like you're an extrovert/introvert. Or you have this cool girl, carefree vibe. (honestly, the reason doesn't really matter as long as it's a decent one and not aggressive).

That convo should give you about 3-5 minutes in, which is good. Then you'll just have to keep on stacking comments or observations for the next 5 minutes like:

- that's a decent outfit
- You look super young

For her friends: just say hi and introduce yourself. Maybe even ask "how do you guys know each other" if they are engaged.

hope this helps

Title	Tips on going out solo?
Author	travioli90
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	May 2, 2026 10:30 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1t23v5k/tips_on_going_out_solo/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/tips-on-going-out-solo.1579465 https://theredarchive.com/post/1579465

Comments