Is it just me, or does it seem like some of these posts are too serious? Like some of these posts I read come of as over analytical.

I want to say right off the bat that I'm no ladies man. But I do go out. I also have a variety of hobbies. I think I've done over 200 approaches now. There are a few times where I just spend all day talking to women. And you know what? That shit is fun. I mean yeah its good to read theory when you have no clue what to do, but there comes a point where reading about doesn't help and makes you worse.

You know why? Before I was even aware of this seddit stuff, I was a natural. Girls were just naturally attracted to me. Once I started reading this stuff, my game was fucked up. I just started getting way too self-conscious from reading too much. For a short period, having conversations weren't "natural" for me.

I had to stop reading this material to get back on track. And while I am not closing as often as I'd like, I AM HAVING FUN. And yeah, I've had some pretty bad rejections too (from the initial approach down to after 1-2 dates)

Tl:dr: stop reading so much, and just go out. Find some hobbies too and get in shape, it makes a huge difference. If you're not having fun, if you don't feel good about pushing yourself at the end, you are doing it wrong.

P.s. yes there are some times where you kick yourself for realizing what you could've done better. I do that all the time. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

P.p.s. I'm asian, if that makes any difference. The difference is I don't have any negative self beliefs about being asian, and I just do what I gotta do.

P.p.p.s sorry about my grammar issues, I'm typing this on my iphone and i've been partying pretty hardcore for the last few days. Happy new years!