Need some motivation

2012-10-06T12:57:10+00:00

you had 100 approaches..., starting from 101st approach, set a goal for yourself, I want her number, I want to have a drink with her at the bar and talk about some stuff in private, k-close. But don't show you have a goal, set it only for yourself. It will keep yourself motivated because every time you man up you have something more to achieve, something you can look back at the day after.

Exploretheunknown · 2012-10-06T15:32:48+00:00

Don't give up, it takes time for you to adjust to new settings. They say on average it takes 6 months of being in the community before you get to the point where anything happens. For me it took nearly 8.

The rewards are unbelievable. It isn't just your interactions with women that see the benefits, it is your entire life. Things you wouldn't even dream of happen as a result once you get very good. Keep pushing, keep going forward, go and get it.

As a side note, 100 approaches in 4 months at 3-4 nights a week? That is between 48-64 nights out. That means you are approaching two groups/people per night. That is a very low number. Perhaps try to find a wingman who will force you into speaking with more people.

Title	Need some motivation
Author	merelyLurking
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	October 5, 2012 7:32 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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