A consistent issue I've been having is that girls that I talk to think I want something serious when I actually don't. I'm usually just looking to have some fun, but I somehow give off the wrong vibe and make it seem like I'm looking for a relationship or to take things seriously. I cant really point to any specific example, but it's kinda like what I think and how I feel doesn't get conveyed or expressed properly and I might come off as someone too serious? Anyway I can tone it down and make it clear that I'm just looking to have some fun? Also, I tend to have a problem with overdoing things and over emphasizing things (like a subtle suggestion doesn't become subtle anymore because it's stated over and over again).