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I'm single and this is what I do.
/r/seduction08/12/14 03:56 AM
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I used to go out alone a lot. It's not that bad. I'm in the Bay Area if you're looking for a wing.
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:30 AM
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"You're too short for me" Not when I'm standing straight ;)
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:29 AM
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when it starts to affect your relationships, money, and health.
/r/seduction19/10/13 04:01 AM
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Technically, it's not the fastest sperm cell that gets to fertilize the egg, it's the smartest one.
/r/seduction23/02/13 09:02 PM
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I like this post. A lot of stuff he writes is inspiring.
/r/seduction10/02/13 02:07 AM
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Lol...I just got with a woman almost 10 years older than me over the weekend (23 year old here), and this is what I did. Don't feel insecure AT ALL. Don't be needy AT ALL. Tell her something along the lines of: "men at your age can't get it up". It's kinda to describe, but the vibe you give off has to be not needy, and you have to be ok with being shot down. Specifically, that's the vibe you have to give off. Be a gentlman, but aggressive at the same time. This works for me...it's hard for me to…
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:20 AM
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what do I do with an older woman that's overly forward, but only when drunk?
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:09 AM
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Always be pushing your comfort zone. Thats all. Appreciate the emotions you go through -- fear, doubt, anger, happiness, joy, desire, sadness. It all shapes who you are in the end. Being able to get along with ANYONE helps a ton.
/r/seduction13/01/13 07:50 AM
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You havent had enough pussy then
/r/seduction13/01/13 06:42 AM
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life experience. and staying in shape.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:37 AM
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I have a laid back personality...its actually most people's first impression of me. Maybe this changes when I'm talking to the ladies? In the past I've intentionally gotten into fwb situations either by making a high risk/high reward move (goin in the kiss least expectedly) or explicitly stating it. Don't know if that's the best way but that has been whats worked...
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:11 AM
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Have an upvote my friend
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:19 AM
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Omg I wish I knew this before!!!!
/r/seduction25/12/12 02:49 AM
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Yes finally a post i can relate to. Unfortunately my game was circumstantial. No one situation where I ended up with a girlfriend/hookup was the same. To be honest, all those times I was just being myself. Never really thought of it as a concept of "game", and when actually did, thats when things started getting bad for me for a while. I realize I can totally be myself and only run a little game here and there. Im mostly an emotional guy, so I think something thats technical as the mystery metho…
/r/seduction25/12/12 02:16 AM
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Yes indeed. I've been in every social siuation you can think of. I know it sounds like im bragging but it you're able to take a girl home while shes somewhat sober and she says you're different from other guys, then you know you're not creepy. But u gotta be creepy to other girls to attract the next girl sometimes.
/r/seduction20/12/12 07:49 AM
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I think I've failed at about 200. The only thing I learned? How to not come off as creepy.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:07 PM
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I do however am busy filing and pushing papers, answering emails and I'm constantly on my toes for 8 hours a day. Its not like I don't have enough work to do. In a sense, its cultivated in me a work ethic I've never had, and that has helped me grow professionally. I just don't see myself there in the long term and am pretty dispassionate about what I do. Although, it is my first job out of college.
/r/seduction18/12/12 06:12 AM
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Customer service, but I have almost no voice interactions with the actual customer. Looking to move on to sales and marketing, debating on whether or not I should keep this job until I hit the one year mark or not. And also, the culture here is kinda bland/old school.
/r/seduction18/12/12 06:07 AM
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My best opener so far was physical: a slight pat on the head and a "boop!" It took her off guard and she gave me the "wtf" look. We end up making out for 3 hours later on. She also gave me an erotic lapdance. Needless to say, she was just looking for some fun and I happen to be the right guy.
/r/seduction17/12/12 08:57 PM
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Well obviously...
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:05 AM
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As an Asian guy, I love white girls.
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:05 PM
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You are most likely going to bang an asian if you tell them you don't date asians. Source: I'm asian. ps. I'm drunk.
/r/seduction13/12/12 08:29 AM
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I second this notion.
/r/seduction13/12/12 08:28 AM
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A man isn't defined by how many lays he gets, or how often he wins. He is defined by how many times he gets back up when knocked down.
/r/seduction13/12/12 08:22 AM
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You sound like someone I talked to last night. Anyways, approaching and gettin shot down is no big deal.
/r/seduction12/12/12 08:45 PM
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Gonna take this one :)
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:13 PM
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Rejection weeds out the girls that aren't right for you anyways.
/r/seduction17/11/12 03:49 AM
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Just bought your book man. It's very interesting. What really struck me was your first article: "Why it's so hard: modern dating for men". You talk about fulfilling missing emotional needs. Well for me, and a lot of others, I have a lot of unfulfilled needs growing up as a child. Won't get into details, but I grew up without parents, grandmother was tough on me growing up, and a couple of mishaps in my life that happened to me at a young age as a result of things that happen and my own bad decis…
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:30 AM
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hey I'm very much on the same boat..except I don't follow RSD or plan to, I have everything based on Simple Pickup, seddit, and my own experiences.
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:16 AM
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You have the highest percentage of doing well if you engage and entertain the whole group. Grab their attention, make them smile, make them laugh, and do it genuinely. After about 5 mins of doing this, then pick your target in a non awkward non conspicuous kind of way. If there are guys, its good to be cool with the guys (as with any group). If they still are bitchy and shut off, move on man, its probably not worth it anyways. I don't know why Asian groups tend to be more exclusive than other gr…
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:05 AM
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Speaking of bantering, I usually get it started by guessing what she does. As a side note: for some reason, once in a while when I talk to an Asian girl (I'm Asian myself), and I guess she's an accountant or something that has to do with finance, she gets offended (unless she's with a group of Asian friends). I LOL deep down inside when that happens. Anyways, yeah I guess what they do as a way to start bantering with them. Usually it's a job of high status/pay...like fashion designer, investment…
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:16 AM
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I grew up with dominant woman. A matriarchal family. And because I also grew up independently, I am not a pussy (or I try not to be). Whenever a girl brings up the fact that shes an alpha female, I just smile, and tell them they are just like my grandma and aunt (and they really are the alpha females of the family).
/r/seduction13/10/12 07:08 PM
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Ok maybe I am well beyond 100, the first two groups are only warm ups for me. I usually make 5-6 approaches when I go out. On a good night (like maybe once a week) I'll make 10 approaches.
/r/seduction06/10/12 06:35 PM
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Hey thanks for doing this. I hope its not too late to ask questions. I can only approach direct. And also, the more things I read, the more self conscious I get. I mean once i get over the self-consciousness then I can really do some damage, in a good way. The question is, direct game is hard, but I do i because I like being honest. I really dont think theres any other way to do it, what are some other ways I can approach someone without using a routine?
/r/seduction04/10/12 08:11 AM
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Thanks man, keep up the good work!
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:11 AM
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seconded.
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:03 AM
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This is the kind of shit I've always wanted to do but never thought of!
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:02 AM
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Thanks for posting this Vichet, I really needed to read this. I've been going out 3-4x a week for 3 months. I've talked to over 100 women/groups of women/mixed groups. Sometimes I solo, or go out with a fellow wingman. I've only gotten 1 date out of the 100, and that was only through a friend of a friend (she was quite a catch though, was the type of girl that was attractive and called herself an alpha female...which kind of turned me on) I guess if I didn't make 100 approaches, I would've never…
/r/seduction18/09/12 06:40 AM
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just fucking do it.
/r/seduction08/09/12 07:25 PM
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It's like reaching new levels of not giving a shit.
/r/seduction30/08/12 07:23 AM
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This is good advice. What I usually do though is guess what the other person's occupation is. And exaggerate the shit about what they say. It's a great way to segway into a convo.
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:13 PM
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It's awesome to hear more people around the same age putting themselves out there.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:33 AM
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solid advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction24/06/12 10:22 PM
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I didn't feel awkward until we started dancing. She came up to me, so I was pleasantly surprised at first.
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:15 PM
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Lol, so with women like her, I should go direct, and keep it in a sexual context?
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:14 PM
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sorry man, I was high as fuck while writing this so I might've put a little too much detail...next time I'll do a better job.
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:12 PM
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I have tried these and I can vouch for this.
/r/seduction13/06/12 05:59 AM
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I don't have much experience going out to venues and picking up girls, so I guess none. Actually, I haven't even been out in a while. I also live in the bay area, in the South Bay, so I'm down to go sarging whenever I'm free. And I'm actually intimidated by beautiful girls. I'm talking about the 9s and 10s. I won't approach unless there's somebody pushing me to approach. But I think I am intuitive enough to where I can pick all of this up and become decent within a year, more or less. So yeah, t…
/r/seduction28/05/12 12:44 PM
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Saved
/r/seduction04/03/12 12:53 AM
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Thanks for the advice dude
/r/seduction26/02/12 06:45 PM
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this...except I don't like to think of myself as introverted...but maybe I actually am...I don't really know. It used to bother me when I knew I was, but now that I don't think of myself as introverted...I guess I'm not but actually still am? Who knows. Maybe I don't have much to say sometimes. But I definitely feel you on running out of things to say.
/r/seduction25/02/12 11:36 PM
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My childhood is complicated. My parents haven't been around since forever. I grew up with my grandmother, who was two generations back (from asia), and i barely understood her when she spoke. I felt scared of her, partly becuz she was an old stubborn lady. She resented my mom too, and at that time i didnt know why. Though, i remember telling my grandmother how badly i wanted to see my mom. She never sympathized with me. I had no one to feel sorry for me, and at that age, i needed badly to tell s…
/r/seduction02/02/12 12:06 PM
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Congrats man, thanks for the great read.
/r/seduction04/01/12 02:04 AM
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