Went to a club on Friday. I saw a group of three HB7.5's, picked the hottest one and and tried the "hand of God" thing where you just walk up, hold out your hand, look at her eyes and then back to your hand. It worked perfectly. We dance a bit and I talk to her outside and get her number.
Yesterday I texted her asking what she was up to that night, and she immediately tells me to meet her in a nearby city. We meet up and went to this place with a cool view and talked. In hind sight, early on I missed an opportunity to k-close. She was talking about my tactic of getting her to dance with me and thought it was funny.
I say, "well it worked"
She goes "and how do you know it worked?" In a really flirty tone and eye contact
and I reply with "because you danced with me. You easily could have denied me."
I feel like that reply was terrible and I could have said something like "because you like me and will let me do this" and then kissed her. I guess it's just hard to come up with great responses on the spot.
Anyways, we just keep talking for a while, and then walk to a nearby park and talk some more. There were a few times where hands and arms would incidentally touch and neither of us would make an effort to move them. But what I don't know how to do is go from talking about stuff like music, drugs, and how we come from really different backgrounds, to making out. Like there is a big chunk of stuff that needs to happen in-between there, I just don't know it.
In terms of push/pull I am very good at "pushing" and was teasing her and making her laugh the whole time, but I am not as good at "pulling", which is obviously huge.
We hugged a couple times before we left, but what is good is that she said that I am "aggressively confident" This is great for me because 3 months ago I was the complete opposite of that.
Any advice or comments are appreciated.
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