Okay so i've never posted here before but just reading this sub has been really helpful to me over the past few months. I'm finally getting good at attracting women which I was awful at mostly because I was a coward. In the past 7 or 8 weeks I've gotten 5 snl and I've had 3 girls interested in more. Problem is, they are interested in relationships and I'm really not right now. Pretty much all of them have mentioned (not in a rude/bitch way) that I'm bad in bed, and tbh it's not hard to see where they're coming from. It's now getting in my head to the point where I can't even get it up the first time im with a girl, and when it does happen the next time I see them they end up disappointed (biggest problem right now is I can't last very long). Obviously I'm not as sexually experienced as a lot of other 21 year old, so my question is this. Should I just find a girl to date for a few months, just to get some experience? One night stands are hurting more than helping. The problem is that I feel guilty because I know that's not really what I want, but it's hard to entice a girl to be a fuck buddy if they aren't enjoying the sex :/

Ps. On phone, sorry if formatting sucks