A lot of people shy away when situations get uncomfortable. But the people who confront the discomfort are the only ones who will ever rise above being average. Rising to the top is a one man show... No one will drag you to the top, only you can make that happen. So remember the next time when things get uncomfortable, do not shy away.
[–]NDex101 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
The techniques, methods, and philosophies we learn are to help you understand the struggle. How you cultivate your experiences is up to you. In any endeavor you must first learn the basics, practice, and master them. You will come unto your ways of doing things afterwards. We live and learn. There are two things we can never have at the same time. Youth and wisdom. "This is a lifestyle." ~Mystery
[–]Paltenburg 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How ís Mystery these days?
[–]tabacoolyo 0 points1 point2 points (8 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been punished for approaching girls too much. I’ve been reported, screamed at, and laughed at lmfao I’d rather just act like i don’t care about the girl when talking to them
[–]tmdelgado [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
reported lol how?
[–]tabacoolyo 0 points1 point2 points (6 children) | Copy Link
I was feeling good one day and decided to chat up one of my coworkers on the way to our cars leaving work. The week after my boss pulled me aside wondering if I ever made any girl coworker uncomfortable and because she’s the only one I didn’t know like that I instantly knew what he meant. It’s possible she thought I was trying to get at her but I genuinely wasn’t and didn’t flirt with her AT ALL.
[–]theojamesdickcheese 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
She probably thought you were following her
[–]tabacoolyo 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
yea she definitely did. It’s just fucked how she labeled me as a creep for close to nothing
[–]Neil1398 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Don’t shit where you eat.
I wouldn’t want you losing your job because some girl thought you were trying to sexually assault her by saying hi.
[–]tabacoolyo 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I quit that job so we’re good. I also used to approach girls in college and I’d never get good vibes, always the poker face
[–]D8147qty [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
… So you’ll do it again at your next place of work. Is that what you’re implying? Dude, legislation in some states calls what you do harassment & others call it sexual harassment. Be careful bro. Bishes take money & get attention for simple male attention these days — not saying it won’t happen but likely it will.
[–]tabacoolyo 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s not what I’m implying. I slept with a girl from work after that, but that girl approached me. I never made any kind of effort after that ordeal anymore. I had girlfriends at my job but I made it clear it was friends only.
[–]Neil1398 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it’s definitely an upward climb but well worth it. Still rough at times especially when I compare my progress to others.
[–]NDex101 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Thriving