Turning a one night stand to a consistent hookup

2013-10-28T06:57:16+00:00

be good at sex?

puaCurveBall · 2013-10-28T19:30:40+00:00

Conversation.

Being an awesome guy to hook up with is a completely different mindset / skillset / attributes than a guy they want to casually date, or more seriously date.

You need to find out what the girls are looking at the moment in their life, where you would fit into that, and express some interest in casually dating.

You need to screen out the girls that aren't interested in this before you take them home.

Lots more talking!

jimjoekelly · 2013-10-28T05:25:08+00:00

What are you texting them the next day? If these texts generally have a booty call tone, experiment with something more casual like a coffee/lunch invite and go from there.

wannagetbaked · 2013-10-28T13:05:38+00:00

What offers are you making that are getting declined?

donit · 2013-10-28T13:54:39+00:00

You should plan the next date while you're with her, even before you have sex, when she is aroused. That way she'll associate her arousal with the thought of going out with you next week.

quickwipes · 2013-10-29T04:12:57+00:00

steal something of theirs and that way they have to meet you again to get it back. or leave something of yours. problem solved.

kennotheking · 2013-10-28T23:28:18+00:00

Try bringing them back, escalating and then NOT having sex. Escalate and then, out of no where express something to the effect of "you know what, I hate one night stands...I'm looking for someone who I can really connect with sexually." Almost every girl will empathize (if they don't it wasn't gonna work anyway). Get a little philosophical - explain that you want to be overcome by desire and for that too happen, it needs to be a challenge. At this point, turn on the intellectual foreplay - start by asking what gets her off then get into her fantasies. Share your fantasies so she can qualify herself to what you want. Only 2nd base, spoon for a bit while you whisper awesome things in her ear then tell her that you/her need to get going because its a must and that you look forward to texting her during the week.

I have never witnessed AFC levels of frustration from a woman (actually the majority of women I tried this on), until I pulled this move. A situation like this has simply never occured for most attractive women.

Just a fair warning. You may have to limit your next encounter to 3rd base in order to remain congruent. By the 3rd encounter, however, she has probably invested enough energy into you to stick around.

Anyway thats just one way. As with all human relationships, there ultimately needs to be investment of energy and emotion for someone to stick around. And that's the sticking point here.

Title	Turning a one night stand to a consistent hookup
Author	allannicholas
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	October 28, 2013 4:58 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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