Girl says "What do you have going on tomorrow [Sunday]"? I have no plans. We could go to a park or something and sit there but i don't feel liek it. I tell her I'm busy. She writes back "What are you doing tonight?" I don't drink. Too scared to dance. Not a restaurant guy. So two part question. (1). What the heck do I do to hang out with girls? (2) What's a polite way to temporarily turn down someone I'm not really into? Thanks