Universal recipe

BruddaRed · 2021-01-16T19:27:02+00:00

Chase excellence, not women. Build it, and they shall come.

RaghuVamsaSudha · 2021-01-16T22:35:59+00:00

It doesn't have to be that complicated. Do whatever that makes YOU happy and feel lively without agonizing your co-inhabitants of the planet. If that means you are after girls, just be. Why not? If you want more than a girl in life but not happy in the process of wooing them, find out what's failing you and work out a plan that keeps you happy. Success isn't money and having people in life. It is how happy and satisfied YOU are with YOUR life. Success is a journey not a target. If you are happy doing stuff that leaves you bankrupt so be it. If you are happy chasing things that leaves you with bad health so be it. If in the process you have regrets so be it as long as you are contended.

2021-01-17T21:26:40+00:00

You should chase whatever makes you happy and do things that will help have a positive impact in this world. Relationships are important but shouldn’t be your only mission in life.

timmiay · 2021-01-16T21:14:32+00:00

Yeah exactly and don't get hung up on 1 person. There are so many amazing people out there

2021-01-16T22:53:10+00:00

Plus don’t live for other people’s approval or attention or you’re gonna set yourself up for disappointment. Obviously this can be difficult seeing as we are social creatures but it’s the way it has to be

hunterpua · 2021-01-17T00:23:27+00:00

Success as a man? That to me has nothing to do with women and simply not focusing on them to focus on what you need to do is not enough.

Lots of people who are trying to succeed are already focused on what they need to do yet they still don't succeed.

And you can give some of your attention to women and still be successful. For example, a man who cares deeply for his wife can sure as hell still be successful.

As far as a "recipe" is concerned I believe actual humility is an important ingredient.

As in, recognizing that if you're talking to someone who is successful at what you want to be successful at while you currently have very little success then accept that you don't know shit compared to them and that there is no way for you to even have an idea of what you're supposed to do to get to where they're at.

So when they offer you advice, don't take a portion of it and mix it with your own stuff, don't pick and choose for what parts of their advice you like and don't like, don't add anything to it, don't create your own interpretation of what they mean and do your version of what they're suggesting you do, get rid of all the shit you're thinking because its what has you in your current position in the first place and just follow the advice the more successful guy gave you to the letter.

Nothing more nothing less.

Only if it doesn't work for you after you've followed it to the letter for about a month or two should you start modifying or rejecting it.

Other than that, even if you're extremely doubtful but you truly believe the person that gave you the advice is legitimately as successful as he seems then just do exactly as he says.

quirkypinkllama · 2021-01-17T17:03:15+00:00

Live your best life, talk to strangers, be friendly and kind and playful and if you see someone you like then ask them out! If they say no, say "ok, gorgeous,no problem" and off you go. Bring BDE to the table.

2021-01-17T19:46:03+00:00

Have a good time wherever you are and live in the moment. If you couple this with being confident and you work towards achieving your goals dating will not be hard

Title	Universal recipe
Author	sesh_hash
Upvotes	16
Comments	12
Date	January 16, 2021 7:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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