https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f0kkpy/gentlemen_tonight_is_the_night/

I posted this about 2 nights ago. I went out and now it's time to tell you guys how my night went. Hopefully you guys can learn from this.

So I make my way downtown to the 3rd largest city in the world. I find a place to park for the club I wanted to get into. I was listening to todd v on my way about nightgame but I was so nervous I tuned it out the closer I got.

I'm from the suburbs. I never go out so this whole night is surreal. The drunk college kids and young professionals dressed up herd around the streets. The playful screams of 19-25 racing to the clubs. While I'm alone but for some odd reason...it felt fine. No one knew who I was, no one cared who I was. I was just a guy.

I walk the streets and hear the the buzzing of buildings get closer and closer and I reach my destination. I get in pretty quick. And the stimulus is intoxicating. But it's nothing like I've ever experienced before. This high energy environment I usually reserve for friends, is experienced by me completely alone, hunting. It felt odd, I didn't know where to stand and if I stood I felt like I was lurking the club. I knew what I came there to do though. But I was just...I really don't know. Kind of in awe of how I got here.

I get in quick, hit the bathroom, get my drink and I'm all out of things to do to look like I'm doing anything but lurking. I scan for girls to talk to, the music's loud, friends are all around, everyone's dancing and I'm hugging the wall thinking "Wtf do I do now" I wasn't even nervous I was just...confused mainly. It's not like day game where you can go up light energy and say "hey I like your bag" or some shit like that. Fuck no

I went home. I don't even know why but I just did. I think I was just overwhelmed by everything and I need to just relax and approach. Even afraid, approach. It was just a very very odd feeling. I can 100% do it again but now I know I need to improve on just. fucking. approaching and working on my self esteem and ego to recover from the main thing I fear. Rejection.

Thanks guys, you'll hear back from me soon