Verbal Diarrhea

smoothmax · 2019-08-16T23:48:09+00:00

Whenever I have that tense feeling inside that I'm in danger of launching into babbling mode, I look the other person calmly in the eyes, tell myself firmly "Slow Down" and continue to listen as attentively as possible.

Practice it every day on everybody from your closest relatives to the hottest girls you talk to.

When the moment is actually exciting though, you're allowed to start babbling as a natural reaction to what's happening. I'm gonna say, you want the ratio to be something like 95% chill, 5% babbling in the course of a normal day and especially when socializing with new people or with relative strangers.

When you can listen to someone else babble, and just listen happily to them without feeling the need to jump in and compete, then my son you will be a "chill dude". Chillest of the chill.

smorrow · 2019-08-17T09:04:13+00:00

Just be glad you don't have the type of ADD that's more autismy.

Title	Verbal Diarrhea
Author	J0kere
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	August 16, 2019 8:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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